supposed to be trying but now waiting tc

[MrsCC]

Hi all, im new around here! Nice to meet you all!

Ok, here is my story, me and my husband were supposed to start ttc in November after our wedding, however due to the wedding which cost more than we thought and us needing a new car we decided it was best to wait till March 2013, then in January we found an amazing house that would be a perfect family home and so we are currently in the process of purchasing this house. Which is all amazing!!

However this means we now have to wait to ttc until May 14! I know us buying the house is an amazing thing but I am so gutted about having to wait to ttc. I know I am soo lucky to be in this situation with an amazing husband and a new house etc but I am soo broody.

My husband wants kids just as much as me (if not more) but he just doesnt seem to know how im feeling at the moment, I had started taking folic acid and had prepared myself for being pregnant/ttc and now I have to waitover a year! Im soo hormonal over it all and everytime I see anything to do with babys I cry!

I know im totally rediculous and I am in a nice possition to be in, but im still sooo brody.

Am I totally irrational?

Sorry everyone but I needed to vent my feelings!

 

[Hunnie]

How come you have to wait till next year if you're buying the house this year????? xxx

 

[MrsCC]

Because we had to borrow some money from my parents for the house, so we need to pay them back, plus we are paying a higher mortgage so its going to take an extra few months to save enough for maternity leave etc!

I wish we didnt have to wait but I know its the most sensible thing to do. Argh I hate being sensible! Lol

 

[leesey]

If everyone waited to afford kids, there would be no babies! There's never a good time, you will never be in the 'right' position, something will always come up. Remember it may take a long time to conceive, so putting it off might mean years of waiting. Sorry to be pushy but if you're both emotionally ready for babies then financial security might have to come second. I understand you not wanting to have kids in debt, but realistically is anyone really out of debt these days!!