"stop thinking it and it will happen" GRRR

[Melly41]

Once you are sorted with your move you feel a lot less stressed and you can speak to your GP. Enjoy getting the practice in in the meantime! x

 

[Carly89]

I have been told to enjoy the trying.. by someone who got pregnant on their honeymoon... without even meaning to! No resentment AT ALL.. (Finding this also a side affect of the TTC meltdown that occurs every moth with AF paying me the dreaded visit)
Like most things in life, it's easier said than done. There is literally no enjoyment in having so much unsexy sex... I now refer to My husband as the 'dairy cow' and want to hit him should he even remotely suggest not having sex in the fertile window!! Not to mention the days including and following AF when you literally can't cope with every day tasks or even talking to people without potentially taking their head off

I am taking some solace in reading threads in this forum and realising i am not alone!

 

[Melly41]

You certainly arent alone. Its so frustrating and it seems like everyone around is getting pregnant! Hope your journey in ttc is a short one and you get your bfp soon x

 

[mustardyellow]

For some it works, my cousin was trying for 7-8 years and then she stopped trying and immediately fell on, she has PCOS and was putting herself under so much pressure tracking everything. She warned me to not to try and just enjoy having sex and spending time with my OH. It was the same for my mum, she tried for 6 years with me almost had IVF and then it was putting a strain on her and my dads relationship so she gave up on the thought of a baby and then fell on immediately.

If the thing your doing now isn't working, change it up, enjoy sex and see what happens. Everyone's different so what will work for one, won't work for another.