Have not read the link which someone posted above, but had it with DS and now have it again with DD, pilates really helps me, and also putting a pillow between legs at night, as well as swinging both legs round to get out of bed instead of one at atime. I also have a support belt (my midwife gave me one when I was pregnant with DS, but I've had to buy one from Mothercare over here), the extra support for your bump takes some of the pressure off. It can be really painful, I sympathise hun! xx