SPD doesn't mix with............

[Amanda]

...........sex!

It was only a quicky last night (10 mins max!), but I feel like everythings going to drop out my pelvis today!! I've just drove to the library, spend 5 mins there, then drove back, and I'm in agony! Poor hubbie's going to have to wait a while before I attempt that again!!!

 

[chezzabell]

Bless ya hun

Not long till its all over

 

[Yvonne]

I still can't have sex now

 

[Amanda]

Bloody Hell Yvonne!!!! How do you cope? Or is it just that it is too painful to even contemplate it?

 

[hayley]

I agree Tankett - it's a no no from now on! I feel sorry for DH but i didn't get myself in this state... I'm willing to help him out!!!! but sex is now out the question! I don't think i'll ever feel sexy again... hoping i get my sex drive back eventually... when i think back to the trying stage... i used to wait at the front door for DH to get home from a nite shift... I remember crying one morning because we hadn't the nite before... I was a crazy woman...

Jesus Yvonne - what happened? is that normal after a baby - this is my first....

x

 

[Yvonne]

Tankett, i have to just fiddle!
Doing it in any position is painful, must be the pushing on my pelvis (or thruting or whatever you call it)

I don't make OH go without it... He'd explode!

 

[hev&madi]

what are the symptoms of spd?

 

[Amanda]

The easiest way I can describe the first symptom I had Hev, is it felt like I had been kicked in the vagina by a horse! A very badly bruised feeling, and it hurts to move.

I now have it acute, and I have:
the bruised feeling
clicking when I walk
a burning sensation
grinding when walking
severe pain when rolling over in bed or standing up
unable to open my legs wider than hip width

I have to walk with the aid of crutches to try to take the pressure off my pelvis - great fun to put all of my weight on my hands when I've also got carpel tunnel!!!

Are you getting some symptoms, is that why you are asking? If you are, get yourself to your mw straight away so she can refer you to the physio.

 

[lauramumof2]

At least we try. If it were men they would call the cops if we came near them. I think 10 mins is good going at this stage. I would be pleased with a 10 minute performance. Its quality not quantity.

 

[budge]

oh tanket. Keep your legs firmly togather now till bubba is born
hope you feel better soon.

 

[hev&madi]

ooo sounds very painful i keep getting kicking pains it my lu lu but its not to bad