I have had a lovely morning, its my wedding anniversary and i was awoken by my children whispering happy anniversary to me which was lovely, i got them ready for their first day at school and was happy to see them go in smiling! I then spent the morning with my other son, my brother came to see me which was lovely and then i got Harry ready for nursery and we had a slow walk to school. Now this is where it went wrong....
I was looking for Charles through the school fence and when i found him i was so sad. He was just depressed. I mean really sad. He sat on the tyres on the field for a bit alone then went and sat on the hill alone with a ball he had found i walked into school (they have put this stupid new fence up with a gate separating nursery and the rest of the school) I couldn't see him so i pushed through the gate and i found him sitting at the picnic benches with his head on the table. I got one of the kids to go get him then the dinner lady comes up and says that i am not allowed to be there- i just turned to her and said that i was worried about him, she soon disappeared cause she knew i was in no mood to be told i couldn't see my child.
He was sooooo sad!! He said he had nobody to play with (this is an ongoing thing that happens at school) I asked him to try finding someone and i would sort it out for him later. I walked away and looked back to see him just sitting there next to a post. I could of cried (i nearly did!) I feel so angry with myself i feel like i am letting him down.
i just don't know what to do for the best, i suppose i should talk to his teacher but with it being his first day in a new class she doesn't know him very well yet. He has real problems with his letters so can't read or write very well, he has always been a bit of a loner and plays alone alot but i just couldn't bear to see him this unhappy, he is normally fine at home but can be a bit quiet and needy.
I just had to share this as i felt so sad about it all.
I was looking for Charles through the school fence and when i found him i was so sad. He was just depressed. I mean really sad. He sat on the tyres on the field for a bit alone then went and sat on the hill alone with a ball he had found i walked into school (they have put this stupid new fence up with a gate separating nursery and the rest of the school) I couldn't see him so i pushed through the gate and i found him sitting at the picnic benches with his head on the table. I got one of the kids to go get him then the dinner lady comes up and says that i am not allowed to be there- i just turned to her and said that i was worried about him, she soon disappeared cause she knew i was in no mood to be told i couldn't see my child.
He was sooooo sad!! He said he had nobody to play with (this is an ongoing thing that happens at school) I asked him to try finding someone and i would sort it out for him later. I walked away and looked back to see him just sitting there next to a post. I could of cried (i nearly did!) I feel so angry with myself i feel like i am letting him down.
i just don't know what to do for the best, i suppose i should talk to his teacher but with it being his first day in a new class she doesn't know him very well yet. He has real problems with his letters so can't read or write very well, he has always been a bit of a loner and plays alone alot but i just couldn't bear to see him this unhappy, he is normally fine at home but can be a bit quiet and needy.
I just had to share this as i felt so sad about it all.
wither that or speak to his teacher and even his head teacher that way you'll be abel to work with the school to encorage and help him 
