Hi all,
It has been 12 weeks since my mc. I thought I was doing ok, but struggling again now. I think it is largely because my sister is currently in labour and I am sad for the things that should have been for us.
I have tried so hard to carry on and not feel sorry for myself, but I can't get excited about anything. We were looking to move house and I don't care about it. I usually love Christmas, but I don't want to think about it this year. I don't think I am ovulating and the stress of wanting to be pregnant and ttc again is so bad I can't sleep. I just feel like I am existing, not living and that my life has no real meaning. My DH was really upset by the loss, but he says if we don't have a baby, it's not the end of the world. I don't think he understands that it is for me.
I am also scared that I have missed my chance and that I will grow old and lonely with no-one, because my DH will eventually get sick of me and my nieces and nephew will not want to know me when they grow up, because I will be the old barren auntie that lives alone and that no one cares about.
I'm sorry to rant on here about this. I am tired and lost and scared, but I have to put on a brave face including for DH because he says I need to get over this. I just don't see a future in which I am happy. My life feels so pointless... I wish I could switch off my biological clock. Sometimes, I wish I knew for certain I would never have a family of my own. At least that might bring me some closure in time. As it stands, I am in this miserable place where I see no future for myself. Even my best friend is moving away.
Again sorry for the rant. I don't want to bring anyone down, but I have no one to talk to x x
It has been 12 weeks since my mc. I thought I was doing ok, but struggling again now. I think it is largely because my sister is currently in labour and I am sad for the things that should have been for us.
I have tried so hard to carry on and not feel sorry for myself, but I can't get excited about anything. We were looking to move house and I don't care about it. I usually love Christmas, but I don't want to think about it this year. I don't think I am ovulating and the stress of wanting to be pregnant and ttc again is so bad I can't sleep. I just feel like I am existing, not living and that my life has no real meaning. My DH was really upset by the loss, but he says if we don't have a baby, it's not the end of the world. I don't think he understands that it is for me.
I am also scared that I have missed my chance and that I will grow old and lonely with no-one, because my DH will eventually get sick of me and my nieces and nephew will not want to know me when they grow up, because I will be the old barren auntie that lives alone and that no one cares about.
I'm sorry to rant on here about this. I am tired and lost and scared, but I have to put on a brave face including for DH because he says I need to get over this. I just don't see a future in which I am happy. My life feels so pointless... I wish I could switch off my biological clock. Sometimes, I wish I knew for certain I would never have a family of my own. At least that might bring me some closure in time. As it stands, I am in this miserable place where I see no future for myself. Even my best friend is moving away.
Again sorry for the rant. I don't want to bring anyone down, but I have no one to talk to x x