Hello all,
I have been very emotional this week (hormones, tiredness etc)... I am 23 weeks pregnant and have just finished teaching for the six week break. I have written a post on here before about DH not changing his social life now that I am pregnant again.
I feel like telling him to shove our marriage up his arse!!!!! He went out on Wednesday night for a couple of hours and we had a staff end of term party last night (which we both went to). He has also gone out tonight over our local for a couple of hours with the excuse of it being the 'end of a long term'.
He is an assistant head and works long hours under stress, so in some ways I can understand. He is also good around the house and has spent all day working in the garden. BUT I really feel that he just does not to be with me - he goes out once / twice a week over our local all the time. I hate nagging and really try not to because I am not that type of person and I know that some men need their own time (which is fine). i just think that he does not love me anymore...I feel like asking him to chose between a batchelor life or family - is this too drastic?
What do you think I should say to him or not say to him?? I am also very jealous that he can go out and have a good few drinks whereas I have not had a good night out for nearly six months
Julia xxxxx
I have been very emotional this week (hormones, tiredness etc)... I am 23 weeks pregnant and have just finished teaching for the six week break. I have written a post on here before about DH not changing his social life now that I am pregnant again.
I feel like telling him to shove our marriage up his arse!!!!! He went out on Wednesday night for a couple of hours and we had a staff end of term party last night (which we both went to). He has also gone out tonight over our local for a couple of hours with the excuse of it being the 'end of a long term'.
He is an assistant head and works long hours under stress, so in some ways I can understand. He is also good around the house and has spent all day working in the garden. BUT I really feel that he just does not to be with me - he goes out once / twice a week over our local all the time. I hate nagging and really try not to because I am not that type of person and I know that some men need their own time (which is fine). i just think that he does not love me anymore...I feel like asking him to chose between a batchelor life or family - is this too drastic?
What do you think I should say to him or not say to him?? I am also very jealous that he can go out and have a good few drinks whereas I have not had a good night out for nearly six months
Julia xxxxx