am i in the wrong honesty please

[saze]

well to day i have been so stressed for some reason, had heartburn all day also and to top it off little one was not moving for ages i had tried everything and was worried out of my mind , so when OH got home i admit have been bit irrational with him with things like when he was sat in chair with his feet on other one (was unable to sit down) however i could of asked him without kicking off. I also have spoke to him like shit but really dont mean it . He said he is sick of it so i feel so i shit and wouldn't accept my apology. I have also been to see the physio due to really bad coxis pain so i have got that constantly every time i sit down . Is this my fault? am i being unreasonable? Please tell me truth because i feel like i am in my own little world with it all. Fed up.

 

[linxminx21]

prgnancy is hard. all the emotions and hormones running around your body, topped off with stress isnt a great combo but ti happens to us all
i keep telling oh to go and live with his mummy coz i feel like his mum
try not to worry too much hun and when you feel a little better explain this to oh!

 

[Sarah13]

I don't think men 'get' the hormone thing and the change in us! Try saying sorry again and explain the whole in pain and mood thing again, men seem to need to be told the same thing hundreds of times like kids! It's always the little things that set us off as well. Sounds like he needs to be a bit more sympathetic and understanding but maybe if your on at him all the time he feels he can't do anything right and has had enough today. Must be hard living with us never knowing if we're moody, happy or crying! Sounds like a bit of both of you needing to be understanding to me!

 

[saze]

thank you, i have tried hun but he thinks i am being pathetic and just thinking of myself. All i think about is him i tend to baby him lol so i cant help being unreasonable now and again . Whats wrong with me just sat hear crying i need to get a grip!x

 

[saze]

thanks sarah i totally agree think i need to get out of this mood maybe have a sleep x

 

[Sarah13]

It's so hard to control these hormones! I lost it with my sewing machine earlier!
Your not pathetic and you thinking of him and baby not yourself! Let him cool off and leave him to it for now, don't mother him for a bit, bet he will be begging you too again soon if that's what he's used too! men don't seem to harbor bad moods for long, my hubby just laughs at my hormones luckily!

 

[saze]

haha thanks sarah, starting to feel better xx

 

[Sarah13]

That's good, amazing how quick we can go up and down!