So depressed!!

[kanga86]

So today I have been feeling really down I can't get it out of my head what the midwife said. She reckoned I should have been referred to the epu when I first went to the docs with bleeding. I had it almost constantly for 3 weeks and on and off since then. But the doc said it was nothing to worry about unless it got heavier or I had any cramping, which it didn't. My midwife has faxed the emu to ring me on Monday to get in for a early scan.

So now the midwife has got me worrying when I was already getting myself paranoid about getting to my scan and the baby having no heartbeat, now it is ten times worse. So now I seem to have got into my head that my baby is gone and I'm not pregnant any more, it is making me feel so ill, but I just can't shift the feeling. I don't want to tell the OH because I don't want him worrying as well.

I just don't know what to do with myself

 

[katyo77]

I am sorry you are feeling that way, i have had 2 m/c and it is not nice but they were both very heavy bleeding so fingers crossed all will be ok, my prayers are with you xxxxx

 

[gooseberry]

i just want to say kanga that i know its such a difficult thing to do but try your hardest not to worry about things that havent happened yet, you will just upset yourself and thats not going to do you any good at all x x x

 

[Sarah13]

You must be so worried just now, maybe talk to your hubby so you can share this worry together, your the one who is pregnant you need him to lean on and share your worry. Obviously he will be worried too but the stress won't help you or the baby, bet he would hate to think your sitting stressing by yourself. Really hope you get a scan Monday, if you don't and are still bleeding go to a&e and demand one, it's worked for quite a few girls on here, or even go anyway before then if your bleeding and stressed out. Got my fingers crossed for you x

 

[NatC]

Darlin

Just reading this now! Hope you've manged to relax a bit, any news yet on the scan? Xx