so bloody annoyed!

[winnie89]

Well ladies today started off fairly well (today is the 1year anniversary of hubbys grandad dying) managed to get on with my morning went and popped some flowers on his grave and went for a coffee with the family.

He kept pestering my for sex all afternoon but I told him no as I was in pain with my tummy and my back, but he just wouldn't let it go, he then moved onto you don't love me and all that crap! I told him I'm in pain and I have harry to look after that's more important than hurting myself because he wants sex.

Went out tonight for a meal with the hubby and harry to meet our friend laura started off fine had a lovely meal mark was having a pint and enjoying himself but then he starts drinking really heavily and becomes a complete arse to me. He said things like your fat no one will ever look at you if I leave you, why can't you make an effort with your appearence (I'd got makeup on and I'd done my hair nice) and then starts being an arse by saying harry loves him more than me and that's why he always smiles at him and not me.

Bearing in mind he'd had 7 pints by this point and then started on spirits, he was smashed and saying horrible things so I'd had enough at this point I put harry back in hid pram and went home, my friend was in shock for how he was behaving and said it was disgusted and texted me to see if I got home ok. I got in and just cried I already feel shit about all theexcess weight I put on during my pregnancy and that my tummy looks like a bombs hit it, but I'm slowly loosing weight and sorting it out and making myself feel better and then he comes along and knocks me back

I'm so angry right now I could kill him

 

[x_larlybelle_x]

What a dick. Don't feel down about itself hun. U have bought an amazing child int the world.

 

[misscrazycooki]

Hugs hun.

Men are dick heads my partner plays that card alot saying our son loves him more than me. My son is one now and loves to play with daddy. Mummy isn't fun enough as i do all the caring for him so he is around me alot so my attention isn't as great as daddy.s so don't you dare think he is around right on that one hun. Our children love us but they just get use to seeing mummy. X

As for him being a dick with booze i wouldn't let him drink around you and little one again if it was me x

38 weeks pregnant. Team blue!

 

[misscrazycooki]

My friends tummy is a mess hun but she just accepts it as being a mummy and plans to sort after her second. Don't take any notice on what he said about how you look i bet he isn't a spring chicken himself. I have put on alot of weight this second time around so i feel your pain on that side. Just take each day as it comes and if you feel your down come vent on here. X

38 weeks pregnant. Team blue!

 

[BabyBrain]

What a shit thing to do to you hun. Has he apologised? You need to make him pay through the nose for that! Mother's are the most beautiful women on the earth and he needs to start wising up to that fact! xxxxxxxx

 

[SunnySue]

What a complete dick! Do not listen to a word of what he says (easier said than done I know!). But please, you have just given birth to a beautiful child, your body has been through so much and i'm sure you are a wonderful mother. Your main priority right now is looking after your baby and making sure you are both healthy and happy - not dolling yourself up and jumping into bed on his demand! You are doing a fantastic job, don't let him bring you down

 

[Olive]

what an arse. Hope he's apologised and you're ok. That's pretty unkind. X


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[katie_lou]

What a dickhead x

 

[BevG]

thats so childish, he dosent even mean any of it hes just being a spiteful baby cos you wouldnt have sex with him. a lot of men do equate sex with love and think that women say they love them but dont mean it if they dont have sex with them. its pathetic and no excuse for that behaviour. he would have been locked out and left to sleep it off on the street if that was me!

 

[BabyBrain]

thats so childish, he dosent even mean any of it hes just being a spiteful baby cos you wouldnt have sex with him. a lot of men do equate sex with love and think that women say they love them but dont mean it if they dont have sex with them. its pathetic and no excuse for that behaviour. he would have been locked out and left to sleep it off on the street if that was me!

I read something about this once. That men need sex to feel loved and a woman needs to feel loved to have sex. His behaviour has pretty much messed up his prospects huh?

 

[winnie89]

He slept on the sofa last night he came in this morning and appologised to me he doesn't drink very often so it all went to his head, (that's no excuse) he was just playing up because obviously I'd turned him down, but I told him if he did it again he wouldn't be living with me anymore, I don't drink at all even though I bf but I choose not to drink anyway because it made me into a person I didn't want to be I don't need alcohol to have a nice time, he came into the bedroom this morning with a cuppa for me. In now way is he forgiven because he was a dick to me and I certainly won't let him touch harry when he's been drinking, we were sat in the pub and one of the regulars who I know and has been asking about the lo as soon as I started showing he was only looking at harry and he got really defensive and told him to bugger off (which is just plain rude) but he's not going to drink anymore it's not worth arguing about it