Corrinne37
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My work have just rang me to let me know, that a new girl who only started with us about a week ago is pregnant.
We had suspicions of this and has now been confirmed, she is around the same time that I would have been. Great.
Well I thanked my manager for letting me know in advance, and I said as long as she doesnt know about what has happened to me then it will be fine, I can put on my professional face and get on with things (I have to supervise her and train her up etc),
Oh she does know I was told.
At this point I went mad, I only told my Manager , and two other girls for the purpose of work load, heavy lifting etc etc.( We are all quite close knit and I thought friends.)
But I said I am only telling you three for work / risk purposes you know I have miscarried before, please dont let it go any further.
WHY DOES SHE KNOW! SHE HAS ONLY JUST STARTED. I DONT WANT HER TO KNOW.
DOES EVERYONE IN THE WHOLE PLACE KNOW??????
Am I being really silly, but I just feel let down that they told her, I feel they shouldnt have.
I told who I wanted to tell because I trusted them.
Also, can anyone understand that I will feel so much worse knowing that she knows!
I just feel that I would be ok in front of her if she didnt know. That I could put on a brave face and pretend.
Going back to work is going to be so much harder now!
Any advice (or a virtual slap) ladies would be great. xxxx
We had suspicions of this and has now been confirmed, she is around the same time that I would have been. Great.
Well I thanked my manager for letting me know in advance, and I said as long as she doesnt know about what has happened to me then it will be fine, I can put on my professional face and get on with things (I have to supervise her and train her up etc),
Oh she does know I was told.
At this point I went mad, I only told my Manager , and two other girls for the purpose of work load, heavy lifting etc etc.( We are all quite close knit and I thought friends.)
But I said I am only telling you three for work / risk purposes you know I have miscarried before, please dont let it go any further.
WHY DOES SHE KNOW! SHE HAS ONLY JUST STARTED. I DONT WANT HER TO KNOW.
DOES EVERYONE IN THE WHOLE PLACE KNOW??????
Am I being really silly, but I just feel let down that they told her, I feel they shouldnt have.
I told who I wanted to tell because I trusted them.
Also, can anyone understand that I will feel so much worse knowing that she knows!
I just feel that I would be ok in front of her if she didnt know. That I could put on a brave face and pretend.
Going back to work is going to be so much harder now!
Any advice (or a virtual slap) ladies would be great. xxxx