i talked to the boy again today.. and he said i need to understand that he is just getting all this partying out of his system befor he stops. he said he really wants to have a family with me and that this definately will not continue when the baby is born. i keep spazing on him because im pregnant and hormonal and not feeling any support. oh well...
my mom came up with the best idea. we have an apartment type thing in our basement.. kitchen two bedrooms, living room. my parents are fixing it up and renting in to me, and the boy, if we manage to work things out.
my mom said she will put the rent money into savings for a me and a downpayment on my own house... but not to tell the boy, so if he is paying half the rent, and we dont last, then he has still payed for half my downpayment! AHA its genius! his dad also has alot of money, she said when the time comes to get a house, i should just tell his dad that my parents gave me X amount of money for a house, and see if he wants to match it.
mommies rule.
my mom came up with the best idea. we have an apartment type thing in our basement.. kitchen two bedrooms, living room. my parents are fixing it up and renting in to me, and the boy, if we manage to work things out.
my mom said she will put the rent money into savings for a me and a downpayment on my own house... but not to tell the boy, so if he is paying half the rent, and we dont last, then he has still payed for half my downpayment! AHA its genius! his dad also has alot of money, she said when the time comes to get a house, i should just tell his dad that my parents gave me X amount of money for a house, and see if he wants to match it.
mommies rule.
