I gave up on my first attempt using patches. I planned for it - made sure I had something to do with my hands (took up card making, lol) and I also scared myself silly by reading up loads on all the disgusting, horrible illnesses I could get from smoking - I looked at pics of lung cancer, throat cancer, people with their voice boxes removed.....and when I stopped and I was finding the craving really hard I told myself that whatever I was feeling now was nothing compared to how it would feel to have my toungue cut out or my voice box removed. It wasn't easy, but it also wasn't as hard as I'd imagined it might be..........giving up smoking is my proudest achievement of my life so far (until I have my baby, lol). It is totally worth doing. Good Luck xx