Should I go or should I stay?

[x.Lilly.x]

I will try and cut a long story short
Basiaclly, Im quite good friends with my cousins ex fiance.
Shes had Joe a few times over night and is a really nice girl.
Shes just invited me to her 22nd birthday next saturday, meet at hers and then go out clubbing.
But the thing is, On the down side: I don't know anyone that she knows and Im not the best person at talking to new people, I never know what to say and I get all shy.
Im 25 weeks pregnant so wont be able to drink bar a glass of wine, so will feel like the odd one out not being drunk and having a laugh.

On the pros: Itll be good for me to get out, I never go out.
also me and my bf just split up so I think it would do me good to go out and feel like I can have fun without him if you know what I mean.

My mum is willing to have Joe, but Im just not sure what to do.
I think If i could drink id go as it would relax me and I wouldnt feel like the odd pregnant one whos not drinking and who doesnt know anyone lol

Oh and the theme is 'wheres wally' so I have to somehow dress up to accomodate a bump as well

What do people think, to go or not to go?

 

[Wobbles]

Give it a go hun and if you feel uncomfortable put a smile on for a while and make your excuses to leave, lady with a bump an all that could make new friends? x

 

[Rósa]

Go for it, it do you could to get out, and if you find your not enjoying it, you can always use pregnacy symptoms to go home early x

 

[Elfs Mummy]

Go you can always go to hers for a bit then go home if its to much. I went clubbing a few weeks ago, Don't wear heels !!!! I just drove and left early because i was soo tired, and trustme drunk people talk enough to make up for shyness xx

 

[flexilexi394]

I think I would go and just play it by ear, wear something comfy and if you aren't enjoying yourself you could just leave? Think that's what I'd do xx

 

[vixforever]

Go out hun, if you go and change your mind you can always make your excuses and leave xx

 

[x.Lilly.x]

Thanks everyone, seen as everyone says go think Ill suck it up and go.
Now I need to buy something in the theme of 'wheres wally' lmao any ideas?:L

 

[Apple]

Sorry first post here hope you don't mind me replying. I was in the same boat as you when I was pregnant with my son and I had been invited out to a few things but I never went as much as I wanted to out of fear of people judging me. I would do what ever you feel comfortable with.