She's Not Growing!

[grace7]

Hiya Girlies!
Hope your all ok seems like i am posting all the time lately!
Went to the hospital yesterday for check up recommended by MW
Well they did another scan as they were worried about fluid around the baby and her size (which they said was all ok) but when the MW measured the baby she is still measuring 30 which she has for the past 3 weeks this has got me worried and the MW asked if i had been being sick which i said i had she said i must try and eat little and often to keep food down but i feel my appetite has just gone and find it hard to eat!
Anyway after going to hospital yesterday got home and my bump kept tightening and going rock hard,i couldn't get comfortable and had really bad back ache at the lower part of my back! Its getting to the stage where i think i am worrying about every little thing and as it's my first baby it doesn't help! Has anybody experienced anything like this? Any advice would be appreciated!
Thanks Grace and Bump xx

 

[Ebony_Mommy]

no help here.. sorry..

hope ur baby is alright tho..

btw.. it wud be better if u swapped ur avatar for ur siggy becaz it stretches out the screen

ta

xx

 

[grace7]

Thanks ebony i don't know how to change it do u know?

 

[Princess_Puddles]

Go to your profile, delete piccy and copy & paste link into the big box... sorry that doesnt sound very technical lol

 

[Vicki83]

Try not to worry yourself hun Think the tightenings you are feeling is barxton hicks so nothing to be worried about there i;d say.

All you have to do is copy your ticker link from your avatar into your signature in your profile, then delete it from your avatar.

 

[grace7]

I try not to worry but find myself thinking about it all the time! I think i have just deleted it altogether now lol!

 

[Vicki83]

I know what you mean,every little twinge you shit yourself! Try and take it as easy as you can just now cos one bubs is here there'll be no relaxing for us!

 

[grace7]

thanks for your advice i find sometimes i have no1 to talk to OH is good but doesn't really understand! We live with his parents and feel his mum is always in my face!

 

[Vicki83]

Oh i know, they do try but they can't possibly understand what we are going through, and i know exactly what youi mean about living with OH's parents, i did it a few years ago and have to say it was the worst thing ever! Are you looking for your own place?

 

[grace7]

Yeh i spoke to my partner yesterday about looking for our own place we had a council flat before but my OH was out of work so money got tight so we moved into his parents for money reasons but find that we aren't saving much and i think we are going to go back to the council again in about 6 months after we have saved money for all the stuff we need cos all the stuff before we got rid of cos it was all second hand anyway so hopefully things will improve then x

 

[Vicki83]

Are you not down on the housing list just now then? If not i'd put in an application just now, as some of us on here are currently waiting on council housing and are finding it's taking some time, so instead of waiting 6 months and applying your as well applying just now as it'll probably be a while before you're offered anywhere anyways!

 

[grace7]

Yeh true the only thing we are worried about is applying and being given somewhere soon (doubt that will happen) and not having any money to furnish it

 

[Vicki83]

This is true, i can see your point!

Although you don't wanna wait until you have saved enough only to have to wait another 6 months, lifes never bloody easy is it!

 

[rusks]

it sounds like you are having braxton hicks hence the tightenings etc. completely normal.

good luck with your housing situation.

 

[Jaidy]

This is true, i can see your point!

Although you don't wanna wait until you have saved enough only to have to wait another 6 months, lifes never bloody easy is it!

I agree with you Vicki.

It would be sod's law Grace, that you wouldnt get offered anything for aggeeesss after you put your name down! We have had our name on list for 2 years now and the council have only JUST agreed to house us asap.

So trust me, putting your name down now will not be jumping the gun!

 

[sarah113]

i have no advice, but just wanted to say try not to worry hun, i think if your mw was really worried she would have you taken into hospital and monitered, good luck hun!!

sarahxxx