Sex...

[Amylize]

Hello Ladies,

This is a bit of a personal question...

Me and my OH had sex yesturday and i had to stop because i become sore and dry!

I went to the loo and looke at my lady garden in a mirror and i was red raw! i have no itching so i have ruled thrush.

Anybody else experienced this?

 

[FirstBabyEek]

Hi,

Kind of, when I wasnt really 'in the mood' for it, it got painful because of being a bit dry. It was probably red raw due to the increased blood flow irritating your foof. You OH probably needs to get you going a bit more or perhaps some lube for the time being? You can order durex online if you dont fancy going in to the shops but just make sure the one you choose is ok during pregnancy.
xx

 

[mrz85]

i have had the same problem thinking of using lube x

 

[Amylize]

i never thought about the extra blood flow!!! yeah i do have some lube at home which can be used throughout pregnancy, just dont like using it lol.

At the begining i was "wet" lol just as it went on... i will have to try lube next time!

x

 

[mrz85]

what lubes r safe x

 

[Amylize]

i believe durex are safe, the one i have is a flavoured one i bought from Ann Summers before xmas and i think i was looking a few weeks back and noticed it said safe to use when pregnant

 

[babyem]

I have had this! I was walking like John Wayne for the rest of the day!

 

[KarolinaMoon]

I've had same problem, havent been able to actually 'do it' properly for past few weeks. I seem to feel stingy inside, and quite dry, last thing I want is anything in there!!! i thought maybe I had infection, but urine test is clear. Its started to improve past week though, and I have a v understanding OH who says that my body will do what is best for me, so obv it doesnt want anything in there right now!! lol xx

 

[saralou5]

I'm exactly the same. Never had a problem before but we found Lube was helpful and now it couldn't be better . In fact I think it might be better than pre-pregnancy sex! Silly hormones! .

 

[Hope81]

I don't have exactly the same problem but last week the whole area was a little sore so before bed I had a shower and I put a little baby oil at the whole area ( not inside thought). The same night later we had sex and it felt amazing with the baby oil there. It somehow helped with the friction a little and I don't get red or sore at all.