Sex drive!

[Sarah13]

I have zero! Even though I feel ok physically, mentally Im not interested yet, I'm tired, and don't feel remotely sexy, my body still don't feel my own with breastfeeding. when do you start feeling more your old self, feel sorry for hubby!

 

[knopk@]

I have the opposite problem - my sex drive is back but there are not many chances esp with co-sleeping and reflux. I say give it time, its normal for it to takecouple of months. Maybe arrange to have couple of hours together?

 

[Sarah13]

Suppose it's still early days, not worried yet!

 

[scottishlassie]

I gotta say my sex drive came back after I stopped breastfeeding. I breastfed for 2 weeks and it was just too much for me, I was knackered all the time with constant feeding and there was no routine - feed on demand and I had a big baby..very demanding! So glad things are getting back to normal and we can also let the grannys babysit because baba is bottle fed and it means we get time together. Give it time hun, things will go back to normal.

I did find BF challenging, but I know people who have stuck at it and done it successfully. You need to have some alone time with the hubby x

 

[littlemiss83]

I've got a doc's appointment 2moz 2 get more of the pill, just over the last week i've felt like i really wanna dtd but i've not ventured anywhere myself yet to see how things are lool so it wont be happening for a while longer, but wanna get started on the pill anyway.

 

[Froslass]

I'm worried about my sex drive too! I've been breastfeeding LO and I just am not interested.. Its annoying because I do love my OH and find him sexy and before i got pregnant i would gladly have done it every day, and used to have to beg OH to do it! Now he;s the one who says to me about it and I just don't want to xx Hope it gets better soon! I still feel like a heffer tbh! x

 

[Sarah13]

Glad I'm not on my own frosslass! Maybe we'll feel our old selves soon x