Sex ban.........

[Welshy1]

Well, the title says it all.

OH has been pretty frugal the last few months as he's slightly uncomfortable about DTD with a baby in my tum but I've managed to catch him off guard up until now and have my way ha ha!

That's now all changed as he felt the baby kick the other night. I've been told in no uncertain terms that he loves me very much but the thought of being intimate with me while the baby somersaults inside me is too much for him.......

Is anyone else facing a drought like this????

I find it very funny at the moment but am sure I'm gonna be climbing the walls in a few weeks

 

[Lilmoomin]

My hubby feels the same & trust me they don't back down x x

 

[Welshy1]

Oh noooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

I'm going to have to take up knitting or something to keep my mind distracted.

 

[Rachaellius]

Mine is the same too when it comes to sex. He's happy to do other things though will your OH not even compromise on that? Xx

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

My hubby was so up for it when i was pregnant last time... this time i am not up for it so the poor guy is getting nothing... I dont feel in the least bit sexual. I honestly can think of a million other things i would rather do!

 

[Lilmoomin]

Mine is the same too when it comes to sex. He's happy to do other things though will your OH not even compromise on that? Xx

I wish! All I get is 'one thing will lead to another' I even tried it on about 2 the other morning, I thought he's half a sleep, he'll give in! But he didn't x x

 

[ISH]

The thought of baby being in there is doing nothing for me either, I have to be honest. I much prefer it when there's just the two of us.

 

[pinkyprincess]

I wish mine was like that! He's gagging for it and I'm so not! He keeps dry humping me whenever I bend over! Very annoying! Grrr!

 

[Smithy1980]

Haha that made me laugh pinky as mine did that the other day too and it really pissed me off as I'm soo not up for it! Everyone keeps telling us to DTD to bring labour on but I just cant face it! Especially as baby is engaged, so to think of it's little head so close to his 'you know' is just not doing it for me!!

Hope the urges come back afterwards!!! xx


Sent from my nearly buggared iPhone!!

 

[suzzi]

im banned from sex by my dr and im gagging for it OH has more self control then me lol we have done other stuff but until i have my scan in 4 weeks its of limits, if my placenta has moved i can have a bit of nookie yeah xx

 

[Pickledonions]

neither of us fancy it so we are not pestering each other at all

 

[LoopyLouize]

Oh jeez I wish my OH felt like this! I'm sick to my back teeth of him rubbing against my leg begging for sex every night!

I have totally gone of sex but he hasn't in the slightest and really gets a mega sulk on when I turn him down!

Girls I need tips on how to put him off lol


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[x_larlybelle_x]

I'm really not in the mood for it either by DH is. I have to make a real effort. Especially since I had a dream the other night he slept with someone else and his excuse was "well u don't give me any so what else am I supposed to do?". Woke up crying! Am making myself dtd at least once a week, with a helping hand during the week if he begs! Lol!

 

[nikki87]

I wish mine was like that! He's gagging for it and I'm so not! He keeps dry humping me whenever I bend over! Very annoying! Grrr!

omg how funny!!!!!!! thats exactly what my OT does too!!!! its soooo annoying!!!!

 

[star fish]

I'm with Welshy. I would love us to be intimate and still be BD all the time, but he feels really wierd about the baby. We tried to find a couple of positions that wouldnt push on my stomach but it was all abit uncomfortable and I've giving up pushing the issue. We cuddle a lot and I'll just have to wait until he's up for it again.

My fear is that its secretly because I am hugely fat and unattractive right now! He says I'm being silly and I look beautiful and I try not to let it get to me, but it would be much better if he was finding me incredibly attractive rather than some skinny girl on tv!! Grumble grumble.

 

[Lilelephant]

No sex for us an we mutally agreed and now I have an infection he calls me manky fanny charming

 

[jomc]

No sex for us an we mutally agreed and now I have an infection he calls me manky fanny charming

 

[x_larlybelle_x]

Oh thats nice of him!! Call him grotty willy or somethin!

 

[Lilelephant]

I call him crusty butt lol

 

[jomc]

Im gagging for it tbh.
OH doesnt have a massive sex drive... woking full time and looking after his mum who has dembtia takes its toll on him. We have dtd twice since I got my bfp. Once at 12 weeks and then last weekend.
He hasnt said anything but i think he is a bit unsure cos the baby now moves. TMI but when I started kissing him last week we were belly to belly andhe was convinced the baby kicked, it didnt, but I told hin to shut up stop being paranoid lol.
We are goin away this weekend so Im determined to dtd again