Hi, I know this is a very personal question but I am really worried about how sex is going to be after giving birth. Does it ruin it in any way? I am really scared that I will be stretched so much that I will no longer feel as good during sex or that he won't feel it. It may be trivial to some people, but I really need that closeness and intimacy with my husband and I need to know how much it really does effect a woman and what I need to do to help myself stay semi the same (if at all possible). Can anyone tell me truthfully what goes on down there after a natural birth?