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Summergurl

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So, I'm starting to panic. Panic that something is going to go wrong.
I'm 4+5 & apart from sensitive nipples & a little tiredness (could be down to giving up caffeine) & a bit of hunger at odd times I've no other real symptoms.

I'm panicking that I've got to wait until week 12 to find out if it's really real. Trying to resist the urge to test every day to make sure I'm still pregnant. Reading all the MC stories on here are so worrying.

Please tell me I'm not the only one that worries about all this.
 
Your not the only one who worries, its normal.

Be glad of no symptoms. Mine started at 5.5w and didnt stop till I gave birth :lol:

Perhaps a private early scan for reassurance?

xxxx
 
No, you're absolutely not the only one Summergurl, it is completely natural to worry about something so precious! You need to remember that the majority of women on here (myself included) have fertility issues and are not respresentitive of the general population, and just because other people are unfortunately having difficulties it doesn't mean that you are going to. The worst thing for baby right now is for you to stress so try and relax and appreciate that no sign of a problem is a good indicator that there is no problem xx
 
Thanks ladies.
This is what happens when you have lots of time to sit and think at work!
Bf thinks I'm panicking for nothing also. I wouldn't mind just one big pregnancy symptom to jump out at me though! Ha
 
We'll remind you of that when you have your head down the loo ;-) xx
 
I didn't get any symptoms until about 6 weeks and then it got me like a freight train!! Try and relax, although I know it's easier said than done. You cannot do anymore. Let that little magic happen xx
 
Hi due date buddy! I get worried too although I have a few symptoms, with my first I had no symptoms at all, didn't find out until I was 18 weeks and had no bump! The only thing that gave it away was no period in which the doc blamed it on stress, no pregnancy is the same don't forget :) try and chill out and focus on positive things! Xxx
 
I worry every day too. Everyone says the first 12 weeks drag because you're playing a horrible waiting game!!!!
 
Summergirl I am shi::ing myself so your not alone. I have 3 CPs now so I'm constantly looking for the signs I may have another. At the moment if I can just get to 5 weeks I will be happy.
The tiredness will be because your pregnant not just the lack of caffeine. Some women don't have any symptoms hun that's just the way it is - maybe you will be lucky.
My symptoms really kicked in around 7 weeks so you have a couple of weeks yet.

Stay calm and enjoy the calm before the storm xxx
 
You could ring early pregnancy unit tell them how worried you are they may well book you in for an early scan. First few weeks are hard going esp if it's your first. But I'm so ill every day and trust me it's hard work, saying that I think I'd be like you and complaining if I had no symptoms. I had absolutely no symptoms with my first baby either and he was a healthy 9lb baby. Try not to worry hope I'm sure all is fine you're just one of the lucky few xx
 
Thanks ladies. Had appt with doc today who took my blood pressure. It's low but she said that's what we expect during pregnancy and isn't worried. Told me all the stuff I already knew from reading up about pregnancy & said if I've taken 4 tests then she's not going to do another. Which I knew would be the case. Have my booking appt on the 29th.

She did mention my weight & that I'd be tested a lot cuz of the risk of pregnancy related diabetics but I was aware of that. I'm not morbidly obese but am overweight (according to their crappy Bmi chart!!)

Also mentioned the tiredness & weeing a lot is all perfectly normal too.
Now can't wait for the 29th!
 
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