scared witless...

[breezee1984]

man people know how to worry you more than anything right?..a co-worker i have made me so nervous i have to ask for opinions. she told me her daughter who is pregnant also has had morning sickness for weeks and that the fact i havent had any isnt normal. and she asked me if my bobbies had gotten any bigger, and i told her that they were sore and that i wasn't sure if they'd gotten any bigger, and she said well they should be. now im so scared that something is wrong or that im not normal and im almost in tears and dont know what to do...

 

[Steelgoddess]

Hey baby,

I just came here for a similar type reason...

I was in bed and hubby knocked my with his leg in my bottom and now I can't stop worrying!!

What im trying to say is we neeed to just be strong, hope for the best and hope everything will be ok, we are bound to feel shit scared for the silliest reasons.

With regards to symptoms every woman has different some women have sickness some don't, some have no symptoms at all!

Believe in bub, and your strength will give bub strength too... Sometimes we fear the worst when nothing is wrong at all...

I hope this helps...

They need a support group for women like us i know exactly how you feel, we must be strong!!

x

 

[fifi211]

Some people can be really insensitive and uninformed.

Everybody is different and experiences different symptoms at different times. In my first pg I didn't have any sickness or any other symptoms really all the way through. This pg I have had more symptoms and quite strong, so as well as people being different so is every pregnancy.

However, if you are worried in any way you should speak to your doc or midwife as they can give you reassurance. Hope this has helped you a bit

 

[Misslarue]

Everyone is different. I had no sickness until 9 weeks and then only for a little while. As long as you have a postive pregnancy test, it doesn't matter. You are pregnant!
My boobs never changed (I'm a DD!) I wore the same Bra throughout and after my pregnancy, my boobs never changed. Infact I'm wearing it now!!

Just re-read that. I wore the same size bra, not the same bra throughout my pregnancy!

 

[breezee1984]

thanks alot girls i think why it wories me so much is because my last pregnancy was the same way

 

[Angela123]

Hi

I am 6 weeks and 3 days pregnant. I too have no morning sickness, and have sore breasts (only when I check them!!) but nothing else.

There is nothing wrong in your pregnancy, you are just one of the lucky ones who have not got the sickness yet. I was told most women will get morning sickness starting in their 7th week, so dont stress. And even if you dont get morning sickness in your 7th week, yay for you! It is so unpleasant.

Just enjoy being pregnant and enjoy the non sick days for what they are! I am!

 

[Gem & Leland]

if u look anywhere on the web it says most peeps starts at 6 weeks , mine started at 5w4 days so not far off , wasnt really bad till 8 weeks , sick at 9 , everyones different ! some dont get it at all ! and tbh , i think there lucky as i would love to feel normal right now !

 

[Babylicious]

my sickness didn't kick in until 7 weeks

 

[abbey]

What a cow! Don't take any notice of her, i had no sickness with my first 2, then horrible sickness with my 3rd and this one, no 2 pregnancys are alike. If i were you i would thank my lucky stars you haven't had any sickness, beleive me it's horrible. Also, my boobs never got bigger until the end so i really wouldn't worry about it.

 

[Kylie1007]

I didn't have any morning sickness either - I think that the figures are that 85% of women will feel queasy and 50% will get morning sickness.

 

[jenna]

dont listen to them hun

 

[MollieMOOcow]

everyones pregnancy is different x dont worry

 

[skairdykat]

Breezee hun your co-worker sounds like a jerk. Every pregnancy is different hun. You maybe just one of the lucky ladies who doesn't get morning sickness, not everyone does. And as for the boobies mine weren't sore at all with either of my pregnancies till after I had given birth. Then they really hurt

Don't worry hun, I'm sure you & you little one are fine. Will your doctor send you for an early scan just to put your mind at rest?

 

[okiegirl]

god i cant stand people who give out wrong advice when it is total rubbish! i had no sickness with my last 2 pregnancys at all,not even feeling queasy so dont listen to anything else she has to say,as everyone has already said,each n everyone of us is different and will be experiancing different symptons,it doesnt mean at allsomething is wrong if we're not all getting the same symptons or not!

 

[Urchin]

Breezee

When I was pregnant with my first, I didn't even KNOW I was pregnant till I was 18 weeks! I had no symptoms whatsoever, no sore boobs, no nausea, nothing.

With Brody I felt a little bit sick but not until I was about 12 weeks and then only tiny bit. At the same time my friend was throwing her guts up everyday I was glad to have none!

Please never compare your pregnancy to other people's I know it's hard, but if you do it will just make you worry. after this it will be the size of our bump compared to other peoples, or how the baby is lying etc etc etc, there are ways to worry in every little aspect, just enjoy your pregnancy and ignore what people say you should and shouldn't be like.

 

[muppetmummy]

your co-worker is talking rubbish! I had no symptoms at all with james until at least 8 weeks!
As others have said every pregnancy is different, tell your co-worker to keep her insensitive gob shut

 

[Kylie1007]

It sounds to me like your co-workers opinions are based upon ignorance!

 

[Fingers crossed]

people are so insensitive. I asked my midwife about my lack of symptoms and she just said I was 'lucky' and wasn't worried about it at all. I'm sure you'll start getting them soon

 

[breezee1984]

Hey breeze you cant go by your last pregnancy for symptom spotting as every pregnancy is different in some way or another. I also had no morning sickness and my boobs havent hurt the whole way through Im now in 3rd tri. Take no notice of what she has said as someone else said I think she is insensitive and misinformed. I can understand why you are worried though..when is your first scan? xx

they wont give me my first scan until 20 weeks