well ladies, went to the docs this morning to see the midwife and she just tested for the heartbeat - she said oh this should be no problem cause ur v slim, there were 2 ladies there and they both had a prod around, honestly at one stage i swore they were gona pierce my stomach with the tool they were using
- but no joy, the wee rascal just couldn't be located - they said a few more weeks should make a big difference and that the child is v small which i understand, i just would have liked to have at least heard something just to settle myself - and just believe that there is something in there - she seemed shocked though that i hadn't received an appointment yet - so what can i do - i'll just have to persevere ! !
Oh and on the other hand , i decided for curiousity to ring a private clinic near me who offer private services -scans, bloods the whole lot, i was just curious and my OH had said ring and see how much it costs and we'll consider it after my disappointment yesterday - so to my shock this is the price i got :-
£150.00 registration
£2500.00 2 weeks after baby is born
that was for the full package, - and that doesn't guarantee you a private room in the hospital either - you'd have to ring and book it which is another £100 quid a nite
but they also offer separate scans on their own which they call early pregnancy scans, which cost £170.00 - which i thought expensive, so u really do take it forgranted when u have these things done for u on NHS ! ! I nicely said thank you and i'll have a think