(((Lisa))), of course you can blame your hormones, you have had a life changing event, someone has come alonmg that demands your full attention, means you have to have complete responsibility for someone else's welfare, deprives you of sleep etc. No wonder you sometimes feel you can't cope, even though you are. talk to your hv, if you can, about how you are feeling. you can always pm me if you want to chat or if you have msn add me.