Sad News

[Vicki83]

My poor wee gran passed away on Thursday night, and the funeral is on Christmas Eve of all days - I still have a few things to do before then, need to get another couple of pressys, get in all xmas dinner stuff, etc

But the thing I'm worrying most about is that I don't want to be on such a downer on Christmas day for Sophie as this is her first Christmas where she kinda knows whats going on, she's so excited about santa coming and I really want to make it as special as we possibly can for her but I don't know if I'm gonna be able to or not - I wear my heart on my sleeve and if I'm upset there's no way I can hide it

 

[kiki]

So sorry to hear that!!

 

[scones]

Aw sorry to hear that, my thoughts are with you

 

[krissie23]

Awww hun

I'm so sorry to hear about your Gran. I'm sure it would have hit you hard at the best of times, but just before Christmas is horrible.

I know you said you wear your heart on your sleeve, but try to put on a smile just for the day, for Sophie's sake if you can. I know it will be hard, my Granny passed away 2 weeks before I gave birth to Amber & I was devastated, people kept telling me to try and keep my emotions under control for the sake of the baby, but it was so hard. Sophie is still young and I'm sure she will enjoy the day none the less, if you feel the tears coming, just take yourself into another room for a wee while to have a little cry.

 

[Charlotte_faeriemad]

Very sad news, I think (hard as it is) I'd think about what I was grateful for and what you have to celebrate, your having a new baby soon and it's your daughters 1st Christmas where she can enjoy it more as she understands whats to happen. I'm sure your Gran would rather you celebrate Christmas with your daughter happily (as much as you can) rather than being sad about her passing, she enjoyed you when she was here so enjoy her memory now she has gone to a better place. My thoughts are with you

 

[Anna23]

Awww hun

I'm so sorry to hear about your Gran. I'm sure it would have hit you hard at the best of times, but just before Christmas is horrible.

I know you said you wear your heart on your sleeve, but try to put on a smile just for the day, for Sophie's sake if you can. I know it will be hard, my Granny passed away 2 weeks before I gave birth to Amber & I was devastated, people kept telling me to try and keep my emotions under control for the sake of the baby, but it was so hard. Sophie is still young and I'm sure she will enjoy the day none the less, if you feel the tears coming, just take yourself into another room for a wee while to have a little cry.

what good advise i'd do what krissie23 said so sorry for your loss

 

[jemz24]

So sorry to hear at xmas aswell cant be easy for you or family. But just think your nan is proud of each and everyone of you and i'm sure she'd want you to enjoy xmas.

 

[claire_louise]

awww hun

 

[MrsBrightside]

sorry for your loss hun

 

[LittleLambe]

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news, but I'm sure Sophie will bring a smile to your face on Christmas day. I'm sure she will be looking down and enjoying watching Sophie opening her pressies

 

[Jaidy]

Im so sorry to hear your sad news Vicki, especially this time of year.

I lost my grandad last month, and even though it was very emotional and got to me, Zachary did cheer me up lots and im sure that Sophie will not fail to light you up on Xmas Day.

Have a good one hun, and I hope the funeral goes as well as it can.

 

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[puppylove]

Oh im so sorry to hear of the loss of your gran, my thoughts are with you and your family.

Mayb christmas day will go ok as Sophie might take your mind off your gran for a wee while but im sure and certain your gran will be watching over you all.

 

[Tina & Gabs]

Hi Hun

I am so sorry about the loss of your Gran and hope everything goes as well as expected today

My Granddad passed away 2 weeks ago and the funeral is on Monday; so I understand how you are feeling but it's amazing how your children just give you so much strength. Gabriella just makes me smile when I look at her and it has definitely helped me at this sad time.

All the best

 

[MrsBrightside]

just to let you know im thinking about you today hun. Hope the funeral goes as well as it can love and hugs from me and bump xxx

 

[chezzabell]

sorry to hear about ur gran hun, hope the funeral went ok lots of hugs