Room for one more?

[MrsMushroom]

Well, I guess I belong in this section now rather than TTC.

After our MC, hubby admitted to me last night that he's not ready to start trying again so quickly and I'm absolutely devastated.

He had initially said to me that there was no reason why we couldn't start trying straight away, which then turned into after Xmas and New Year and that has now become "I don't know when I'll be ready"

I feel like he's lied to me and got my hopes up for nothing. It took us 10 months to fall pregnant this time and I don't think I can wait that long again.

I'm utterly crushed.

 

[BabyBrain]

He just needs time to come to terms with everything. He'll be worried about you now and when you fall pregnant again as well as doing his own grieving. Chances are he will change his mind soon enough. I know it's hard but try to stay positive xxxxxxxx

 

[Girly123]

When he comes to terms with it and had grieved I am sure he will want to try again. He doesn't know how long that is at the moment but it could be sooner than he or you thinks. Xx

 

[SunnyGirl]

I read that and thought exactly what the other girls have said. Men are sensitive souls, and he'll be so worried about you, too. As hard as it is (it's shock for you), just give him space because he will so come back to the idea if not pushed on it. That'll be really hard, though, so we will help you with lots of support and hugs and distraction
Xxxx

 

[Princess81]

I'm sure it was hard for him watching you suffer. Maybe he's scared to "put you through it" again.
That said, I understand your longing for a little bundle and hope you guys can get back to ttc very soon.
For the meantime, welcome to the bonkers wtt club xx

 

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