Hubby & I were having a serious talk last night (thats a huge thing for us as I normally end up hiding under the duvet with him attacking me with pillow!!!)
anyway ...
I had my implamon out as we wanted to start ttc, thing is we never said it to each other and when asked if were thinkin of having a lil one hubby would say if it happens it happens, not bothered, not really trying! and so on!
So coz of this when ever hubby and I BDd I would run to the loo after flushing it away!
Now, I am only spott bleedin now so hubby wanted to know when we could seriously ttc, I looked at him blankly and said er..?!
he replied, whenever we had sex before you ran to the loo after and I always wondered why, to which I said well you said you werent bothered if it happens then so be it,
well according to hubby he really wanted to properly try but was to afraid to admit it and thought it sounded better to people if he said it was an accident!
Asking what I wanted I replied, a baby but I only ran to the loo coz I thought thats waht you wanted, when you thought I was running coz you thought that was what I wanted, and Im of the opinion it sounds better if you say its planned coz it makes it seem your better prepared!
(ok readers you still with me?!
)
So after half hour of going round in circles, he said fine, we plan and we do this properly, you get on the forum and ask about cycles Ov womens body talk stuff oh and ask em whilst your at it about my sperm but dont make it look like I asked im a man im meant to know already!! (oops )
So as of this week we will officialy be TTC
(though not telling his family coz we dont want teh dreaded questions every 5 mins of are you preggers yet! coz that would drive me up the fricking wall!)
(is it ok to like have sex if only spotting? I get the occasional stomach cramps but down theres a lot less then it was last week!)
So girlies, tips on sperm production needed please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and and everything else!!
anyway ...
I had my implamon out as we wanted to start ttc, thing is we never said it to each other and when asked if were thinkin of having a lil one hubby would say if it happens it happens, not bothered, not really trying! and so on!
So coz of this when ever hubby and I BDd I would run to the loo after flushing it away!
Now, I am only spott bleedin now so hubby wanted to know when we could seriously ttc, I looked at him blankly and said er..?!
he replied, whenever we had sex before you ran to the loo after and I always wondered why, to which I said well you said you werent bothered if it happens then so be it,
well according to hubby he really wanted to properly try but was to afraid to admit it and thought it sounded better to people if he said it was an accident!
Asking what I wanted I replied, a baby but I only ran to the loo coz I thought thats waht you wanted, when you thought I was running coz you thought that was what I wanted, and Im of the opinion it sounds better if you say its planned coz it makes it seem your better prepared!
(ok readers you still with me?!
)So after half hour of going round in circles, he said fine, we plan and we do this properly, you get on the forum and ask about cycles Ov womens body talk stuff oh and ask em whilst your at it about my sperm but dont make it look like I asked im a man im meant to know already!! (oops
)So as of this week we will officialy be TTC
(though not telling his family coz we dont want teh dreaded questions every 5 mins of are you preggers yet! coz that would drive me up the fricking wall!)(is it ok to like have sex if only spotting? I get the occasional stomach cramps but down theres a lot less then it was last week!)
So girlies, tips on sperm production needed please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and and everything else!!
