O.k im not sure if this is the right section for this or why im even writing this..perhaps as ive had an awful day with my little boy today and im venting. He has just turned 3 and has suddenly become quite naughty around other children. I take him lots of lovely places like farms and play centres and lately he has becaome really bad at sharing with other children and even starting to lash out.
For instance today he pushed a little girl for no reason when she came near him. I told him no and made him say sorry but the mother was talking about him to another mum and it may seem ridiculous but i felt like crying as he is such a good boy..or was
He isnt really violent or anything (apart from pushing) but if a child is on something he wants he just pulls them or bosses them off it.
This isnt like me to be this upset but in a way i feel ive done something wrong or not enough and this has made him do this. I often confuse him by saying 'if you do that again we are going'...then dont as my friend are there and id hate to cause a scene.
I now find myself watching him all the time in these places and see other mums not looking once at their children.
Sorry for moaning on, hubby thinks im over-reacting but he never has to deal with this.
As he's my 1st child..is this an age thing? or just the way he's going to be?
For instance today he pushed a little girl for no reason when she came near him. I told him no and made him say sorry but the mother was talking about him to another mum and it may seem ridiculous but i felt like crying as he is such a good boy..or was
He isnt really violent or anything (apart from pushing) but if a child is on something he wants he just pulls them or bosses them off it.
This isnt like me to be this upset but in a way i feel ive done something wrong or not enough and this has made him do this. I often confuse him by saying 'if you do that again we are going'...then dont as my friend are there and id hate to cause a scene.
I now find myself watching him all the time in these places and see other mums not looking once at their children.
Sorry for moaning on, hubby thinks im over-reacting but he never has to deal with this.
As he's my 1st child..is this an age thing? or just the way he's going to be?