Congrats!!
Steelgoddess is right about taking things one day at a time, although it is the hardest thing to do.
I had a missed miscarriage last October, we found out at our 12 scan that baby had died/stopped growing (however you word it) at 7 weeks. A whole 5 weeks earlier. When I found out I was pregnant again I didn't really relax until well after my scan. I was so scared that it was going to happen again that when the MW told me baby was fine and pointed to the heartbeat I cried with relief.
There's no easy way of dealing with the anxiety or making you enjoy your pregnancy because even now when I can feel baby moving I'm only just beginning to relax.
My advice is not to let the worry build up, talk about it, it really does make a difference to say what you're feeling, and there are lots of people on here who have been through what you have and can empathise.
Hope you have a happy pregnancy, and congrats again!
Steelgoddess is right about taking things one day at a time, although it is the hardest thing to do.
I had a missed miscarriage last October, we found out at our 12 scan that baby had died/stopped growing (however you word it) at 7 weeks. A whole 5 weeks earlier. When I found out I was pregnant again I didn't really relax until well after my scan. I was so scared that it was going to happen again that when the MW told me baby was fine and pointed to the heartbeat I cried with relief.
There's no easy way of dealing with the anxiety or making you enjoy your pregnancy because even now when I can feel baby moving I'm only just beginning to relax.
My advice is not to let the worry build up, talk about it, it really does make a difference to say what you're feeling, and there are lots of people on here who have been through what you have and can empathise.
Hope you have a happy pregnancy, and congrats again!
