Pregnancy question...

[shootingstar22]

Have been debating where to post this, but thought this area would be the best.

So my fiance and i plan to try for a baby after we marry this year. While i was excited to begin with i have since let my brain go into overdrive and am now worried about pregnancy.

My worst fears is morning sickness...i dont do sick. I am one of these people that have panic/anxiety attacks, and for those that experience them you know that you can think that you are dying...or any illness/symptom you have you think it is a terminal disease etc.

So this leads me to worry that i will find out that i have an illness when i have blood tests, that i will have complications or that i may die giving birth-dramatic i know, but i over analyze/worry about everything.

So one thing i am hooked on at the moment is the baby moving in the womb. I have convinced myself that i will freak out and would want to hit my on stomach-i wouldn't of course, but i worry that the moving about will scare me.

So my question is, did anyone have these fears also? How did you deal with them? Should i be worrying...will i just find that i am worrying over nothing? Anyone not enjoy pregnancy?

Also, do you think it would be ok to request a blood test from my GP a moth before we ttc? I have always been worried about diabetes...mainly because for years i ate a ridiculous amount of chocolate...and nothing much else. I suppose i just want to make sure that i reduce the risk of complications etc.

Hopefully you all dont find me wierd, and i thank you in advance for any responses etc
x

 

[AugustMum]

I dont think sick bothers me as much as it does you, but most times I was sick I did end up crying cause it was horrible, but its not the same as being sick normally....because its a reassuring sickness (that probably makes little sense). Im not going to say your worrying over nothing because everybody before and during pregnancy is worried about most things going wrong!!

Also the baby moving thing...its such a brilliant feeling, even though it is a tad strange at first, its beautiful and Im sure you'll love it.

I dont know if thats been any use but I wanted to try and help somehow lol!