i must admit i'm not going by the 4 day rule... AND i've started ruben on solids before 4 months too... (yes, some people might want to tell me off, but he was SO ready) he's had some solids for a week now, and he is 3 months 3 weeks this wednesday, so he started at 3 1/2 months. he is LOVING it, for breakfast he has about a teaspoon of baby rice with some mashed banana (about a tablespoon in total once i've added the formula), and then so far he has had carrot puree and swede puree for dinner (one ice cube each day) and from day 1 he has been impatient between spoonfuls and is not happy when it's all gone! he still has the same amount of boobie too, so i'm not reducing that - but he needed something extra!
next i'm going to introduce pear and apple, and i'm going to get some organic veg off the market this week to try him with.
i actually felt guilty the first time i gave him some solids, because of what the HVs have drilled into my head, but once i saw how he was loving it i'm proud that i followed ruben's lead and read the signals he was giving me. he opens his mouth WIDE open and doesn't even make a mess - looks like he doesn't want to waste any of the food! lol