Possitive opk today... Anyone else?

[linxminx21]

So I got my positive opk today cd18. I don't temp so I'm counting tomorrow as ov. So Friday as 1dpo.
Anyone else at a similar point in their cycle?
We've dtd every day for the past 5 days as I thought ov was going to be about cd 16.
Poor oh is tired out. We've dtd today and will do tomorrow too and hopefully that will cover us!
My left side (near my groin) is sore when I sit with it bent or am driving and lift my foot high for the clutch. It feels swollen.
I'm hoping it isn't a cyst on my Ovary or anything. No idea why I think that Iv never had a cyst. (not one iv known about)
Here's to Ss the next two weeks... Hopefully I'll be too busy with Xmas to Ss too much... (who am I kidding) testing Xmas eve I think with a frer.
Then if it is bfn I'll concentrate on Xmas!

 

[WolfMamma]

I got what looks like a positive today after a darker one yesterday.

I think my DH is pooped out too so it'll take some persuading to get him to dtd tonight.... we've not dine it since Sunday so really need to just in case.

It'll be good to have you to symptom spot with!!

 

[linxminx21]

I'm so bad at Ss I think I make myself have them lol!
My oh is at work at 3am every morning atm so we're having to squeeze in between him coming home and the kids coming home from school too as he's just too tired at bedtime!
I'm glad someone is with me lol I drive myself crackers!

 

[WolfMamma]

I've used up my entire supply of opks and poas', lol!

I'm not buying any more now until I know I need one!!

 

[linxminx21]

I haven't got any hpts in the house cos I use them at silly dpo! So I'll wait until I'm a decent few days past ov lol! Iv still got a few ov sticks left but not enough for another cycle. Just done another one to see if it's started getting lighter.
My pains in my ovaries has gone a lot too I had it for a few hours today quite bad but it's gone off a lot now. So I'm not sure if iv ovulate today

 

[WolfMamma]

I had really nasty cramps a couple of days ago and I was sure that AF was on her way but nothing happened. Took an opk that day and the next day and they were both dark so I'm hoping that it was just bad O pains. I've never felt them before but then I've been on an IUD for 4 years!

We managed to dtd last night so I'm covered for a couple of days. I've decided to stop testing now as it is really stressful and takes the fun out of dtd. I feel sorry for my DH, I more or less told him that sex would be happening last night and he hates that.

If it doesn't happen for us this month then I'm going back to ntnp because I can't cope with tracking and things. I'll carry on using my app but no more test strips.

We are away on our honeymoon until the 22nd so I will have my mind occupied with that which will keep me from symptom spotting when I get back. I'll test on the 25th just to see if we get an xmas surprise!

 

[linxminx21]

How amazing would an Xmas bfp be!
Ohh have an amazing honeymoon!
I Try not to tel oh but he knows I think cos I hardly ever initiate

 

[WolfMamma]

Teehee.

My DH very rarely initiates, it's just the way he is. He is fairly passive in the bedroom so likes me to be the one to make a move, although he's getting better at letting me know when he is in the mood!! It's taken a while to assure him that I actually enjoy being bugged for sex, but he's getting better!!

I definitely have a higher sex drive than he does so bless him, he's been a real trooper!

And yes an Xmas BFP would be awesome. I found out that I was pregnant with my DD on April Fools Day so it'd be fun to find out on another special day!!

 

[linxminx21]

Oh wow did your oh believe you lol?
I joke with mine all the time about turning the tables and being a sex pest myself now!
I hide when I'm doing the ov sticks from him but he obviously knows I'm doing them... And I do try to give him some other times of the month lol.
Iv also started sorting him out while af is here, just to show him how greatfull I am... Really it works both ways as it keeps the swimmers fresh x

 

[WolfMamma]

I've always been more concerned with making sure that he enjoys himself more than I am with myself. I love doing it multiple ways for him, it's just whilst we are TTC that I am a bit more focused on.... not letting anything go to waste as it were!!

To be honest after a month of constantly doing that, I'm bored. I want to go back to pleasing him other ways and not worry so much about TTC. If we don't catch this month then I think I will just leave nature to its own schedule and make things the way they were.

 

[linxminx21]

We've had no contraception for 6 yrs since my little girl was born. So ntnp isn't working cos we don't dtd as much as we should and I gt so mardy around ov we end up arguing and doing nothing lol so I'm having to try and hold my moods in Lmao!

 

[WolfMamma]

Oh gosh!!

I think we are very lucky as I already have a daughter so we don't feel incomplete. This would be his first child but he thinks of Lilly as his own anyway so he doesn't feel deprived at all.

I think with us it will be a case of I stay off bc until we either end up with a baby or realise that it isn't going to happen. I'll stay off it either way.....

 

[linxminx21]

My opks are playing up now too I was expecting a negative today...but nope, I'm hoping I caught it on the way down and it's negative this evening!
I'm sure I ovd yesterday due to the pain and swelling!

 

[tara_46]

I had a very close positive this morning and temp spike so I am assuming OV is on Friday! did the BD last night and will tomorrow too!

Cycle sisters! lets hope we all get BFP!

 

[linxminx21]

These are mine.

 

[linxminx21]

Ohh good luck Tara! Let's hope so!
It would be an amazing Xmas gift

 

[tara_46]

Ohh good luck Tara! Let's hope so!
It would be an amazing Xmas gift

What day are you going to test? I am due on the 29th... not sure how long I will be able to hold out!

 

[linxminx21]

I'm due about the 27th. So I'm thinking the 24th with a frer. Then I'll leave it until boxing day. No testing Xmas day for me if I can help it lol!
Don't want my kids to see me with a sad face. I sobbed last cycle so I don't want that Xmas day.

 

[WolfMamma]

I'm testing on the 25th, if I can hold out that long!

That'd only make me 10dpo or so..... If no sign of a BFP then i'll go for new years eve.

 

[tara_46]

Ladies I hope that we all get BFP! Symptom spotting begins next week!