Please help - am so upset and confused

[looloo]

Hi girls
I am new to this forum, In march I had a miscarriage. I was treated as if it was ectopic and was treated with Methotrexate which has meant that I could not TTC for 3 months. I also had a Laporoscopy and D and C and in the biospy they could see some products of conception so it was a miscarriage

Anyway periods have gone from regular as clockwork 28 days before m/c to 35,35,27 days

I am on day 30. Friday did a CB digital - Pregnant
Yesterday did a further 3 CB digitals!!!! All pregnant!!! plus a First Repsonse - very very very very very very faint line!

Today I have done the same routine again. 3 CB digitals - all Not Pregnant and 1 FR - no line whatsover.

I am just gutted.

What on earth does all this mean - Was I pregnant yesterday and not today??? I am so confused and upset

Please help x x x x x x

 

[libs]

I don't know hun - did you use first morning urine yesterday, or at least stronger urine? Today it may have had less hormones in as it was more diluted..hence the fake negative. Or it may be as you said

Wait a few days, retest and see if AF turns up. If you have negatives and no AF in a week, I'd visit your doctor

 

[rhian85]

dont want to upset u any more hun but i had this last month i had BFP's especially with a clear blue digital then i tested with a first response and a tesco cheapie and got very very very faint BFPS but the day after i had back pain/tunny pain and i had bleeding so i panicked and went to casualty as it was heavy

they tested me and it was a negative, so i was taken up to EPU and they tested again with sample urine sample only with a very sensitive tests and it was a BFN.
the consultant wa very cold and told me it was "just your period u were never even pregnat) so i had a word wit the sisiter as i was fairly upset by his comments

she explained that it may of been a chemical pregnacy hint the fact i had so many BFP a few days before as there was still a good amount of HGC in my urine but on that particular day there was nothing. part of me wishes i hadnt of tested until i was over a week late - like i did with DS if i had of done that i would never of had to go through the excitment of another baby then the heartache of no baby . so i really unerstand how u are feeling at the mo .

my advise if re-test in 3 days as ur HGC levels would have doubled by this time. i honeslty really hope u get a positive in a few days i wouldnt wish what i went through on anybody it was awful.

feel free to PM if u wana chat in private or just for a little advice hun

let me know how it goes and in the mean time try not to worry - i knw it hard

 

[looloo]

Hi there

Thank you so much for your reply.


I am new to this forum and do not know what PM means but I would definately love to chat further...

I am a but sceptical about those digital things...........

oh well - just wish AF would turn up now so that I can try again.

I am obviously having trouble in holding onto pregnancies? what can they do about that????

Thanks for your advice. You said what I thought to be honest.... i know it will be bad news......

 

[Steelgoddess]

I don't know if i trust the digital tests tbh...

I think the cheap good old tests are completly fine and reliable...

It may have been a chemical pregnancy you had....

My only advice as hard as it may be is to not concentrate on getting preggo as such, just enjoy your sex life, do it lots and hopefully you will get caught...

I wish you all the best and hope u are ok

x

 

[Happybunny]

Hi sweetie,

I hope you are ok. It does sound as though it may be a chemical pregnancy, but then, I am no expert, and it may be that you need to wait a few more days to get a reliable response. I can really appreciate how hard it is not knowing.
I am keeping everything crossed for you, but please do pm me if you ever want a chat
M
xxxxxx

 

[rhian85]

hi hun if u want to chat with me a PM is personal message if u look at the bottom of this reply u will see a button with PM on it click that and u will be able to have a chat with me in private.

so if u want to chat then feel free i will do my best to help u as i have just been through this

 

[jenna]

I am obviously having trouble in holding onto pregnancies? what can they do about that????

Unfortunatly they cant do anything so sorry hun.
Did you use your 1st morning wee on the 2nd lot of tests? (the ones where you got negative)

 

[muppetmummy]