Panic worry guilt

[mrs_b_x]

To name but a few of the emotions I'm feeling

Talk about dramatic

I'm back to work on Monday for four days a week and LO is going to nursery. I feel so guilty for sending him there for four such long days

I knooooow he will love it and learn so much and he's a very confident boy, but what if they don't do the best for him?! They don't love him like I do so how can they?!? Wahhhhhhh I just want to quit work, and cuddle my baby all day lol

Can someone slap me now?

 

[Lyllian]

I'll feel the same I'm due back end of April I've already told them I'll see them.mid November. Big hugs hun I feel awful even thinking about it but he will love it amd will be so good for him to be around other babies. No offence but bet the other babies are more fun to play with than us It'll get easier,look forward to the weekend xx

 

[Babygiz]

I feel the same, I haven't worked for 22 months due to redundancy and got a new job part time over 4 days.

Since getting the job I've thought everyday whether it was the right thing to do, I know deep down for us and our family it is but it doesn't stop me feeling guilty. My little one will go to nursery and be looked after grandparents but I worry will he be ok, will he eat enough etc etc.

 

[mrs_b_x]

It's horrible isn't it

My LO had his second settling in session today which was 2.5 hrs, over lunch, they said he ate roast and rice pudding and played and didn't whinge at all until mummies started to come and collect other babies. I was worried about eating too so that made me feel better that he did well with that.

Dropping him off at 8 and not picking him up til 5 will kill me on Monday but I know it's the best thing for us both, they'll teach him more than I ever can and il get my identity back as me rather than his mum, but it's still sad he needs to stop growing up!!

 

[Babygiz]

My son goes for his settling in session tomorrow it's great to see that they have fun in their and your right he'll probably learn more than I could ever do.

I also want my identity back as me not mammy or the wife but me who can actually hold an adult conversation that doesn't involve kids.