lisey
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Hi all,
I took my son to his classmates house today. Myself and the other mum get on well and chat all the time. She knows about my miscarriages as she told me that she had miscarriages too. I felt I was able to speak to her because 'I thought' it would be a sympathetic ear.
On our first conversation about it she was saying how all my Mc's have been with my current partner and do I know 'some people just can't have babies together'...the consultant at the RMC brought this up without me even saying anything and said its total rubbish and there is no such thing.
So today she asked how everything was going, I told her all tests were clear and that its down to bad luck. "Rubbish" she said!! I explained that I have had all the tests and everything was normal. She went on ask several times, 'well what are they going to do next time, what are they going to do to stop it happening again'!!! I said that there was nothing they can do because there is nothing to treat. She said its total rubbish and of course there is....Yes, there are things that can be done if there is an issue but I don't have anything to give treatment for. I think the RMC consultant knows better than her, its one of the top RMC's in London and I trust them but its just left me feeling deflated, like she was saying there HAS to be a reason and it will happen again.
So sorry for the rant but I just need to get it out. I won't be speaking to her again about any of it as she just makes me feel worse xx
I took my son to his classmates house today. Myself and the other mum get on well and chat all the time. She knows about my miscarriages as she told me that she had miscarriages too. I felt I was able to speak to her because 'I thought' it would be a sympathetic ear.
On our first conversation about it she was saying how all my Mc's have been with my current partner and do I know 'some people just can't have babies together'...the consultant at the RMC brought this up without me even saying anything and said its total rubbish and there is no such thing.
So today she asked how everything was going, I told her all tests were clear and that its down to bad luck. "Rubbish" she said!! I explained that I have had all the tests and everything was normal. She went on ask several times, 'well what are they going to do next time, what are they going to do to stop it happening again'!!! I said that there was nothing they can do because there is nothing to treat. She said its total rubbish and of course there is....Yes, there are things that can be done if there is an issue but I don't have anything to give treatment for. I think the RMC consultant knows better than her, its one of the top RMC's in London and I trust them but its just left me feeling deflated, like she was saying there HAS to be a reason and it will happen again.
So sorry for the rant but I just need to get it out. I won't be speaking to her again about any of it as she just makes me feel worse xx