I have an anterior placenta and the kicks I feel aren't very hard. My OH only felt the baby kicking for the first time this week.
With an anterior placenta, the placenta is at the front so a lot of the time the baby is kicking the placenta rather than you. Many of the kicks I feel are at the sides rather than the front.
I see my tummy moving from time to time but not as often as other women I assume.
Coupled with the fact I also have excess fluid means I probably will never feel those hard kicks other people do, but I do feel my baby moving around everyday.