OH problems

[Hunnie]

and they're all caused by me!

I just simply cannot be bothered talking to him in any way or form and now he's getting stroppy at me (which is fair enough) because I dont seem to want to spend any time with him.

I honestly dont know why but I really cannot be bothered?

 

[kerry5a]

I think a lot of it is being busy all day, constantly having people asking you things and then just being tired. Come the evenings and weekends you just want to be left alone and have some space x

 

[Lisa_85]

I'm a little bit the same,its not that i don't want to spend time with him but i notice im snapping at everything. I'm feeling crappy lately and since we dont live together i always think ill feel better when I'm with him. But he can't do right for wrong and i just feel like saying... f**k it I'm going home! Xx

 

[Princess81]

I think it's a hormone thing. I can't be arsed with anyone at the moment

 

[Mrs CW]

We've had a few evenings where I've felt the same I think it's as Kerry says being tired from the day and just wanting some space. I always take myself off for a bath or a lay down when I feel like that and feel much better after some me time x

 

[Hunnie]

I'm a little bit the same,its not that i don't want to spend time with him but i notice im snapping at everything. I'm feeling crappy lately and since we dont live together i always think ill feel better when I'm with him. But he can't do right for wrong and i just feel like saying... f**k it I'm going home! Xx

its very similar with me and my OH apart from the fact I dont feel like I will feel any better when Im around him. I must look like I have bi-polar or something as when Im with him I do feel quite happy and we can have a good day but then the next day after Ive been home I just really cannot be bothered at all and its an effort talking to him on the phone or texting him back and then its even more of an effort to bring myself to spend another day with him.

He rung me up today asking me where he could get the dvd boxset I mentioned ages ago for my birthday thats next weekend. He had already text me earlier on in the day asking what I would like and Id already told him that I didnt want anything and to save his money, so when he rung I snapped at him and told him that Id already said I didnt want anything. It was harsh of me and he didnt deserve it at all but I actually dont feel as bad about it all as I think I should (how much of a bitch do I sound )

I think im just having a bad time at the minute with my emotions.

I dont even feel like moving in with him with the way Im feeling at the minute !

 

[Lisa_85]

I don't think u sound like a bitch. I'm hormonal and one minute I'm happy the next i wanna be alone. I couldn't even comprehend the thought of living with him. I think we just go thru phases whilst pregnant, i don't think it helps that because of hormones and actual body changes i don't feel like my normal self this isn't helping how i feel being around him. I'm tired, grotty and i can't be arsed with how i feel about me and that straight away makes me feel like i can't be arsed to put a front on for him or anyone in general. Im sure it will pass tho so don't stress and just listen to what ur body tells u ur wanting... u may just need some u and bump time xx

 

[Rachaellius]

I think it's just a mixture of hormones and the fact that we're uncomfortable. I've been taking it out on my OH a bit too, I just seem to get really irritable x