not telling anyone else im pregnant *update 1st post*

[Manda&Thomas]

i just got this sent to me on facebook from my little sister seems she worded the message wrong as she was halfway threw doing a cooking thingy at college
Shhh there was ment to be a LOL at the end of that!
cant you see my status? it says im excited!
i am happy for you, thats why i said im coming over thursday so i can have a chat with you, dont take it the wrong way please i am being supportive, so what if anybody like dad or sarah says anything its nothing to do with them isit. you know that i will always support you manda are you angry with me now?
her status is natalie is excited but shocked!!!
hmm well we have made up told her to think about what she writes next time, and she has promised to not send messages quickly again. just glad its sorted really as i hate falling out with people
thanks girls for letting me vent on you lot


well i told my sister and i got a horrid responce along the lines of " your thick, stupid how could you of let this happen ect ect" well i wont be going out now stuff her i wont be telling anyone else the news either now,
im 22, married and already have a child i dunno why people have got a problem with it but i no il pretty much get the same responce from everyone else
im a great mum Thomas is so clever and happy i no my marrige isnt perfect but we are getting there, just wish people could be happy for us
sorry girls needed a rant

xx

 

[Tenshineko]

 

[Frog99]

stuff them! As long as your happy then thats all that matters.

 

[Mama 2 Be]

Well that was a bit rude

We're happy for you Is it me or do people just not think when talking to pregnant women??

Call me old fashioned but what happened to a simple "Congratulations!"

 

[louears]

stuff them all, we can all be your new family it is your life and your choice and they should be happy for you. you are not thick at all and sounds like your doing a great job with your little boy.no ones marriage is perfect, no relationship is.

 

[HannahD]

oh sweetie what a horrid, unnecessary thing to say. You're a great mum and there's nothing stupid about wanting more children. Stuff 'em!! She's probably just jealous.

 

[Anna23]

omg how incenstitive of her especialy as you were trying to save her feelings in the first place by telling her, hun in time she will come to be happy for you also not everyone will react like her and you make a great mum to thomas so no doubt you'll be a great mum to both of them , i'm a bout if you wanna chat on msn

 

[abcd1234]

What a horrible response!!! You obviously want this baby and whether she agrees or not she should have the decency to support your decision!
I want 2 babies by the time i'm 22 and i'll have the husband by then too lol, i'll expect cxomments like this from strangers but not those who are meant to be there for me

 

[Snuggle]

OMG I would have slapped my sister if she responded like that Its a shame that people can put a downer on something so special

 

[Manda&Thomas]

aww thanks girls
had a rant back at her, i no i shouldnt of but nevermind
hubby let me have an hour lie down so im feeling a little more possitive
xx

 

[yummy-mummy]

So I take it the night out is cancelled!

Cheeky cow - I would have smacked her into next week if that had been my sister. I know my mum had/has her doubts about my hubby even though we get on like a house on fire and have had no arguments in the last 3.5 years compared to mums one a month with dad but even she was happy for us.

Well they do say with friends like that, who needs enemies but I don't think there's a suitable one-liner regarding family.

 

[sarah113]

 

[Anna23]

aww thats great i'm so pleased she is happy for you

 

[louears]

so pleased you made up, i think the shock makes people say silly things sometimes. i hate falling out with people too, especially at a time like this