Need some advice Please help!!

[Ally06]

Hi

Im am just looking for some advice from some people, and i know how good people are on here at giving it, so seemed like the only place to ask

Ok so for the last 18 months me and my BF have been having unprotected sex as we feel we are both ready to start a family, we have a house and have been together since high school, so about 7 years

Nearly every month when my period is due i think i might be pregnant, and its heartbreaking when my period starts and im not.

A few years ago i was pregnant. i went to the hospital for a scan and the doctor told me i had lost the baby, i spent the next 3 days in hospital having a miscarriage, and had a DC, i was about 10 weeks gone

I don’t think i have ever truly got over that and i think that’s a big part of why i want to be pregnant again.

Its the same case this month, i am due on my period, but this month is different as i genuinely feel different, i have symptoms that could just be my period starting, or could it be what i have been wishing for?

I have sore breasts, im very moody, i have had a head ache for a week that i cant shift, i am tired allll the time, im hot all the time, my best friend said to me the other day that my skin was "glowing", i have lost weight quiet a lot in the past month (i don’t know if that is normal) im bloated most days, i feel sick in the morning although i never am, i nearly fainted in work yesterday.

I went to the doctors about my head ache the other day as i thought it might be a migraine, but he said it didn’t seem like the typical migraine, he n\did an examination and found i was slightly anemic, my blood pressure was low and that i was slightly dehydrated, i know my symptoms could be because of these, but were has the anemia come from and the low blood pressure?

I know that the obvious answer is to do a test but i really don’t think i can face doing another test that comes out negative! , or that i should of talked to my doctor about it, but i have recently moved and have a new doctor and don’t feel confident in confiding in him

i guess i just needed to get it all out and talk to someone, and like i sadi before i could only think of this as the best place

Is any one in a similar situation, i just feel so alone, or does any one have any advice for me??

Thanks

A x

 

[Babylicious]

I pretty much felt like that with this LO - definately dehydrated and did nothing but cry last weekend.

Have you been charting when you OV?


Good luck

 

[Ally06]

Hi

Thank you so much for replying, i haven’t actually been charting my ovulation, but i know ever month when it is

Its so strange you should say that, last night my bf went out and i was in on my own and i cried all night for no reason, i was watching TV and just started crying at the most ridicules thing and now i feel i could burst into tears any minute!!

 

[fifi211]

Hope you can find out what is going on with you, but the only way you will, is to do a test. Haven't really got any good advice about the way you are feeling as when I was pregnant with my ds I didn't have any symptoms until I missed af. Good luck and hope you get the result you are looking for .