naughty child playing with my son.

[mummyof3ttc]

Firstly I hope it's ok to post on here. I am really getting frustrated

Basically my son is 4.9 years old has speech problems and there's a girl across the road she knocks on for my son that's fine she's lovely her brother is the problem.

He's nearly 4 I think and he really is so naughty. I've had tell his mum for throwing bricks at cars they don't do or say anything let him out after 5 minutes or less don't keep their eye on him crossing the road I hzve 3 myself 2 under 2 and it's taking time away from my children

My son dislikes him tells him go away so I am then telling him off for being nasty but I don't want the boy around my children in my garden argh. He just opens my door to try let himself in I say you can't come in sorry he says why.

I know he's young but I really can't cope with him and he's not my child he thinks it's ok to throw bricks n soil at my son I've politely asked him not to I have told his mum who does nothing and my son is getting told off through no fault of his own.

So my thread is basically to ask how do I politely have a word with her I think he may have behavioural problems and I don't want be rude but I can't keep having this either his sister is lovely but every time she's out so is he it's getting to the point I don't want my son in the front garden with the other children because they come across.

I'm at my wits end and he's not my son ! And I can't tell him because he's not my child.

Sorry if I come across nasty I'm not but I have enough worry about watching my own 3 children and I want play with them not keep having to watch him in case he's throwing bricks at cars etc

Arghh.

Thanks.

 

[Lilmisshopeful]

I'm sorry your going throw this I know it's a nightmare I used to live near the nightmare family that every street has. Now here's what I say and do. If a family allow their children out in supervised and they do wrong then I tell them off and explain why it's wrong ect. I have had mums come ask me about it not happy like and I just reply well.if your not going to supervise your son then I will. If you don't want other people doing your job then do it yourself or keep him in. Simple
If she is willing to allow him.into your garden to play she she must be willing to allow you to make judgements on situations and tell him off where need be. Good luck xxx