My Vlog..#2pg2 updated #3 page 3

[Lilelephant]

so after the thread on vlogs I thought why not do one just for you guys!
i look a right state cos i just got out of bed when i did it! Hood to cover wild hair! hehehe

Eeeeek
so here is Vlog 1
http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v400/Laurz2004/ttc%20vlog/?action=view¤t=vlog1.mp4

if you need a password it is: comet

 

[linxminx21]

thats really good if i did it id stutter and chocke and not know what to say lol
good luck huny x x x

 

[Lilelephant]

thanks hunnie! I am sure you would do great!

 

[rachaellouise]

Aww hun Hearing you talk about the mc was heart breaking
You will get your sticky bean very soon!!

 

[LouiseB]

That was good

You should stick it on YouTube though imo, you can set videos to public/friends/private and it might help someone.

And if you get enough views, they start to pay you lol

 

[Lilelephant]

Thanks guys!! Thing is I am not confident enough to have just anyone watch it, I feel comfortable for you all to see cos u r all so supportive.

 

[LouiseB]

Ah i'm the opposite - i'm more comfortable showing them to people who are complete strangers who i don't care what they think rather than you ladies who probably already formed an idea of what i'd be like irl and it might not match up lol

 

[Lilelephant]

Ah i'm the opposite - i'm more comfortable showing them to people who are complete strangers who i don't care what they think rather than you ladies who probably already formed an idea of what i'd be like irl and it might not match up lol

are you going to do one? Maybe the mods can start a vlog section.....i mean we have a blog section....i just think it is easier to relate to the person when you can see them!

 

[Piglet's Mama]

Great vlog! So gutted for you re your MC - can't believe people were heartless enough to say "it's not even a real baby yet"...!
That's truly awful!
Wishing lots of luck for your journey and sending you tonnes of babydust x

 

[Lilelephant]

Thanks, I think they thought they were helping by saying things like that but they really aren't!!!

 

[SunnyGirl]

Loved your vlog!! Yeah I think people think they're helping like you say. Aw xx

 

[Olive]

Well done mrsmc I will be tuning in to your next vlog! I can't imagine how you felt having a mc. I know if I found out I was pg, it would be a baby and a pregnanccy straight away to me. A mc must be truly awful. Hope you're ok. Baby dust a plenty on it's way to you.xxx

 

[Lilelephant]

Thanks LauraAnne!
the best one i got was "the only cure for how your feeling is to get pregnant again" from the GP.....i am friggin trying grrr

 

[linxminx21]

thats horrible thing to say (the doctor)
jeeezzzeeee id have sworn at that man/woman!!!!!!
good luck tho hun iv had mc n had the same things said to me its heartless of them but some people just dont know what to say and in this case my advice is simply ........... DONT SAY ANYTHING!!!!!! just to be listened to helped me


EDIT: excuse my spelling its this flu making my brain soggy lmao

 

[Lilelephant]

thats horrible thing to say (the doctor)
jeeezzzeeee id have sworn at that man/woman!!!!!!
good luck tho hun iv had mc n had the same things said to me its heartless of them but some people just dont know what to say and in this case my advice is simply ........... DONT SAY ANYTHING!!!!!! just to be listened to helped me


EDIT: excuse my spelling its this flu making my brain soggy lmao

yeah I agree linx, all i wanted was a hug, stupid comments not welcome! lol Hubby was sweet tho he was all serious one day and said he was looking on the internet and how did we expect the baby to hold on in there it didnt have arms or legs yet! it was so sweet and such a simplistic view it made me laugh.

 

[linxminx21]

awwwwwwww tht gave me goosebumps everywhere bless him thts the kind of thing u needed from sumone who really understands u
as hearless as it sounds i split with my OH after mc we wasnt together too long anyway and i blamed him ( god not to his face) but deep inside i blamed him as id already had a healty baby, i know it was obviously not his fault but i couldnt help it

 

[Lilelephant]

i think you look for something to blame it is only natural, and as your oh at the time was the only thing seemingly different from before it was easy to blame him. I blamed myself, i thought it is cos i didnt deserve a baby, which after counselling found out that I it stemed back to when i thought i killed my grandma, i thought it was gods way of punishing me for that.

 

[linxminx21]

its horrible aint it, but these things happen
my sister lost a baby at 5 months 3 weeks then 2 weeks later she had to have her arm amputated from above the elbow due to blood condition hospital missed and shes only 30
she blamed herself for having abortion at 13......my dad made her do it not through choice but back then ya parents word was final....... no one is to blame really just tht bloody witch

 

[Lilelephant]

omg your sister has been through so much.
it will be our time soon, we have to believe that

 

[linxminx21]

yeah i know bless her she has lost every baby she has carried in the last years thts bout 9!!!!
i may advise the baby asprin i just saw on ur other post cud help her
yeah i know only the waiting is horrible n heartbreaking everytime AF gets u