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Left my ex last year after 7 years of domestic violence, he was a lot older than me, we got married when I was pg - (was 18). We have Paris who is 7 tomorrow - but we found out a couple of months ago he was abusing her (not touching - showing her and asking her to touch :puke: ) So I called the police and he's not seen her since, we are waiting for it to go to court so he never sees her again. She's a lovely little girl and why would anyone want to do that! I'm still fuming and sickened by it.

Anyway his dad turned up this afternoon to see her so I'm a bit hacked off :evil:

I didn't want to leave you all in the dark as you are such nice ladies I wanted to be honest :hug:
 
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I am super shocked. I hope they catch him, im sorry but he belongs in jail. Take care of your little girl and of yourself of course :hug: :hug:
 
He was arrested a couple of weeks back but then released as they didn't have enough evidence to convict him, funny how you live with someone for such a long time and you don't really know them :cry:
 
Aw hun, :hug:

My OH's EX friend was jailed for doing this to his boys (4 years not long enough if you ask me), my OH lived with them for like 4 years and didn't know, these people can be very deceptive :x My OH blamed himself for a while, but I was like 'why would you suspect him?' Of course as soon as we found out, we had nothing more to do with him, it's absolutely bloody disgusting and I hope he has the sh*t kicked out of him in jail :evil:
 
I can't understand why anyone could do this to children, let alone your own flesh and blood - they all deserve to die a very slow and painful death - maybe being strung up by the balls with cheesewire for starters.
 
whatever has happened - you were strong enough to deal with your situation and you'll be strong enough to deal with your daughters :hug:
 
The thing is he is still trying to see her after all this, she knows my current partner as Dad now and his family are great with her. She' come on so much since not seeing him and I am so proud that she told us what he was doing before it was too late. He should be shot. I hate him
 
omg hun. thats awful. im sorry this has happened :cry:

what a brave little girl to tell you. :hug:

i hope he gets what he deserves
 
And quite right too. Well done Baby and Paris for your courage :hug:
 
:x How dare he try to see her?! :shock:
Words can not sescribe how angry I am reading that I feel sick.
What a wonderful brave little girl you have :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
Babylicious said:
The thing is he is still trying to see her after all this, she knows my current partner as Dad now and his family are great with her. She' come on so much since not seeing him and I am so proud that she told us what he was doing before it was too late. He should be shot. I hate him

Won't you be able to get injunction against him if he's suspected of child abuse? If not, then something is very very wrong with the law...
 
thats awful theres not much i can say that hasnt been said already so ill just send you loads of hugs :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
how can people actually get off from there own child , i dont get the mentality in that :shock:

hope he goes for a very long time !
 
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bbz that is :puke:
i hope he gets sent down and never be able to see your little gurl again. keep your head up high bbz
:hug:
xnatx
 
one word.... tw*t

i was abused by my stepdad and everytime i read/hear of someone else being abused it annoys me so much

men like this should be hung drawn and quartered...



How dare he do that to anyone... let alone his own fooking daughter...
 
frangelle said:
Babylicious said:
The thing is he is still trying to see her after all this, she knows my current partner as Dad now and his family are great with her. She' come on so much since not seeing him and I am so proud that she told us what he was doing before it was too late. He should be shot. I hate him

Won't you be able to get injunction against him if he's suspected of child abuse? If not, then something is very very wrong with the law...

I have a prohibited steps order. He will break the law no matter what, he's just that type :wall:
 
Babylicious said:
frangelle said:
Babylicious said:
The thing is he is still trying to see her after all this, she knows my current partner as Dad now and his family are great with her. She' come on so much since not seeing him and I am so proud that she told us what he was doing before it was too late. He should be shot. I hate him

Won't you be able to get injunction against him if he's suspected of child abuse? If not, then something is very very wrong with the law...

I have a prohibited steps order. He will break the law no matter what, he's just that type :wall:
When we went to court, my family protection officer got conditions in his bail that he wasnt allowed to go anywere near us, OR on the street which we lived. If he did he would have gone to prison for the duration of the bail till it went to crown court.


Everytime/anytime he turns up jus ring the police and get him arrested.
 

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