Coming from the other side as well though just to play devils advocate
, when my best friend got pregnant before I did without even trying really, I felt so horrid, I cried for days because I felt it was so unfair, I had been trying for 3 years and she got pregnant without trying or wanting to and then she told me by text.
I avoided her for about 3 weeks I felt like I had to let it sink in and absorb what she had told me, I sent the congratulatory texts back straight away but I couldn't speak to her I felt terribly hurt and as if my heart was breaking, after I had got over the shock and disappointment (selfish I know, but can't help them there feelings) I contacted her and we got really excited about it, sadly she miscarried.
This time when she told me she actually rang me and told me, and it just so happened that I could tell her snap
so this time we have both been preggers at the same time, she is 4 weeks ahead of me
but we are looking forwardto spending some good quality maternity leave time together.
Just saying that maybe at the moment she needs a little bit of time, maybe send her a text beginning of next week, just a general one asking if everything is ok?, if you don't ask you won;t get an answer
Hope you get things sorted with her xxxxxx
