Hi hun 
Just saw this. Basically Daniel's sleeping improved a LOT after we used this system.
First of all try getting her to sleep 1 hour later. She will be windgy but it is worth it.
Second - nappies. Daniel leeks in anything apart from Pampers (but the ordinary ones, not those Superfit or whatever ones. The ones in green package are the best). Try not to change her at 11pm. Maybe it is worth going a size up and buying those pants which you put on top of the cloth nappies, which doesnt let the wee through)
Third - the feeds. What we do, feed Daniel before he goes to sleep, and then feed him at 11pm (basically we dream feed him. Like a baby) Also, try adding baby cereal in the bottle of your usual formula milk. For a 9oz bottle about 2 teaspoons. But make sure its not to think, and keep in mind that it tends to bulk up after 5 minutes. And feed her with the teats which have wider opening, for thicker liquids.
Fourth - ignore crying. I know it is hard, but what we did in the beginning was, when Daniel started crying in the middle of the night I just went to his room, without any talking/eye contact put him back in his cot (he was usually standing up in there) and just sat on the floor so he can see me. He cryed a lot, for about 10-20 minutes, then just sat there watching me and then went to sleep. But you have to be really strong not to show any signs of you noticing her. So, after I saw that he went to sleep, I slowly moved further and further away from the cot. Sometimes he woke up and I had to go back and start from the beginning. Might take a few days, but now if Daniel wakes up in the night he isnt even crying, just sitting in his cot playing (I can hear all that on baby monitor). I only go and check on him if he is REALLY upset (you know that high pitch crying)...
Well, hope this will help. Worked for us (hope Im not gonna jinx myself, hehe)
xxxCarina
Just saw this. Basically Daniel's sleeping improved a LOT after we used this system.
First of all try getting her to sleep 1 hour later. She will be windgy but it is worth it.
Second - nappies. Daniel leeks in anything apart from Pampers (but the ordinary ones, not those Superfit or whatever ones. The ones in green package are the best). Try not to change her at 11pm. Maybe it is worth going a size up and buying those pants which you put on top of the cloth nappies, which doesnt let the wee through)
Third - the feeds. What we do, feed Daniel before he goes to sleep, and then feed him at 11pm (basically we dream feed him. Like a baby) Also, try adding baby cereal in the bottle of your usual formula milk. For a 9oz bottle about 2 teaspoons. But make sure its not to think, and keep in mind that it tends to bulk up after 5 minutes. And feed her with the teats which have wider opening, for thicker liquids.
Fourth - ignore crying. I know it is hard, but what we did in the beginning was, when Daniel started crying in the middle of the night I just went to his room, without any talking/eye contact put him back in his cot (he was usually standing up in there) and just sat on the floor so he can see me. He cryed a lot, for about 10-20 minutes, then just sat there watching me and then went to sleep. But you have to be really strong not to show any signs of you noticing her. So, after I saw that he went to sleep, I slowly moved further and further away from the cot. Sometimes he woke up and I had to go back and start from the beginning. Might take a few days, but now if Daniel wakes up in the night he isnt even crying, just sitting in his cot playing (I can hear all that on baby monitor). I only go and check on him if he is REALLY upset (you know that high pitch crying)...
Well, hope this will help. Worked for us (hope Im not gonna jinx myself, hehe)
xxxCarina
) but just wanted to wish you luck. Hope you get a good nights sleep soon 
xxx
She went to bed at about 6:30, and the fire works here were going CRAZY till abouyt 10pm, i was expecting her to be crying and up all night, and to my suprize i didnt hear a peep!!!, i decided maybe i wouldnt change her at 11pm, unless she cried before i went to bed, only then would i chamnge her, she woke at about midnight, but went back off to sleep fine.
