There's 8 years between my two too...
1) what's the biggest change between having your first and last children.
Gah...feeding...
Breast was always best, but the education, support and advice was non existant and formula was easily resorted to...no wonder so many people quit back then
Then solids... No such thing as BLW... and the advice which is in my health book (UK health book) clearly states you must wean between 3 -4 months. Which I did as a good mum advised by my HV. Now it seems that might have horrifically damaged my childs intestines having done so...
1)2) what hasn't changed (good or bad)
Ineptitude of doctors when the baby/kids really sick
and well babies poop, pee, puke, cry, feed and cry
as always
1)3) overall are things better or worse or have all the "advances" not made much difference?
Dunno
all the queer things I did with my baby 9 years ago... that made me a "hippy tree hugger" mum damaging my kid... I breastfed, cloth nappied, baby wore, co slept, baby signed, never used bottles, got Tia feeding herself by 9 month.... are all fashionable and correct now...
So thats improved...
But people are sooooo much more panicky about things now... a slight bump to the head, weaning before exactly 6 months etc, letting the "evil" Sposies (disposible nappies) touch your baby's skin and poison them, using pot foods
Babies aren't that fragile... if they were the human race would have died out long ago. So thats gotten worse imo...