Laura1391
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Hi ladies,
Haven't posted on here in a while as been having phone problems so been a bit quiet latley but all going well with bubba she's nice and healthy moving all the time!
So this is another rant basically..yesterday was my partners 24th birthday and his mum and dad took us all out for a meal me,my partner,mil,fil his two brothers and one of their girlfriends so were all sitting around enjoy a lovley zizis when his mother decided to ask me who I was having at my birth. I informed her it would just be me and luke my partner and hopefully my best friend depending on when it happens and if someones around to look after her daughter his mother then decided to tell me not ask me that she would be there and she is now my birthing partner when I said you can only have 2 people she told me that it would bter if I told me friend not to bother! I was so angry I don't even want my own mother there do why the hell would I want her? We don't even. Get on as she's always drunk and I barely drink obviously not at all now I'm pregnant but never been a big drinker before! So luke decides to change the subject and the meal goes back to being nice again well apart from her moaning about ever tiny bit of the food even through it was lovley! So we get home and lukes brothers girlfriend has got a big bag of second hand clothes from her friend. Now I'm not fussy a couple of my friends have given me some lovley second hand outfits from their children that have barely been worn but we sit there me the MIL and brothers girlfriend to go through these clothes and they are awful all streched out and dirty and all red! I'm not a fan of red at all I'd prefer more nutural colours or pink on my little girl so forcefully I picked a few outfits i thought were okay but knew they would be going away never to be put on my little girl and then his mum picked up the rest and said that's what she can wear when she's with me I'm too fussy when I don't have any means to be! It was a lovley gesture of his brothers girlfriend and I know she was being helpful but my daughter had two wadrobes already and luke earns a decent enough wage that we can afford to clothe our child. Its just his MIL I can't deal with her now let alone when the babies here! She thinks she's taking the baby to lapland for christmas next year???
Thanks for letting me rant ladies bet your all going to think I'm a stuck up ungrateful bitch now! Xxx
Haven't posted on here in a while as been having phone problems so been a bit quiet latley but all going well with bubba she's nice and healthy moving all the time!
So this is another rant basically..yesterday was my partners 24th birthday and his mum and dad took us all out for a meal me,my partner,mil,fil his two brothers and one of their girlfriends so were all sitting around enjoy a lovley zizis when his mother decided to ask me who I was having at my birth. I informed her it would just be me and luke my partner and hopefully my best friend depending on when it happens and if someones around to look after her daughter his mother then decided to tell me not ask me that she would be there and she is now my birthing partner when I said you can only have 2 people she told me that it would bter if I told me friend not to bother! I was so angry I don't even want my own mother there do why the hell would I want her? We don't even. Get on as she's always drunk and I barely drink obviously not at all now I'm pregnant but never been a big drinker before! So luke decides to change the subject and the meal goes back to being nice again well apart from her moaning about ever tiny bit of the food even through it was lovley! So we get home and lukes brothers girlfriend has got a big bag of second hand clothes from her friend. Now I'm not fussy a couple of my friends have given me some lovley second hand outfits from their children that have barely been worn but we sit there me the MIL and brothers girlfriend to go through these clothes and they are awful all streched out and dirty and all red! I'm not a fan of red at all I'd prefer more nutural colours or pink on my little girl so forcefully I picked a few outfits i thought were okay but knew they would be going away never to be put on my little girl and then his mum picked up the rest and said that's what she can wear when she's with me I'm too fussy when I don't have any means to be! It was a lovley gesture of his brothers girlfriend and I know she was being helpful but my daughter had two wadrobes already and luke earns a decent enough wage that we can afford to clothe our child. Its just his MIL I can't deal with her now let alone when the babies here! She thinks she's taking the baby to lapland for christmas next year???
Thanks for letting me rant ladies bet your all going to think I'm a stuck up ungrateful bitch now! Xxx