Might be leaving you all :(

[mum2be?]

No i have not got my BFP

But i am due to make a decision this week with oh about TTC. I am still young and starting to like the idea of finishing my last year of at college and gettign married next year abroad, then once we done that return to TTC. but its a big decision to say im going to go back on pill after being of it since Aug06. Seams like i have wasted 9 months TTC.

I really do think me and my Oh needs a year or so until we have a baby as he has a bad anger problem and is seeing someone about it but it going to take time and i dont wanna rush into having a baby coz if i do i know i will never get married...

I really dont know what to do........

 

[MissGobby]

ohh hunni if you go i will miss you!!

BUT....you have to think what is right for you, as you said you are still young so there is plenty of time in the future for a baby!!!

good luck deciding babes and take caree

 

[happy-chick]

Hi hun,

Sounds like a very hard decision to make but I think you are making it for the right reaons. Im sure you will make the best decison for you both in the end.

If you go you will be missed, take care xxxx

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

Why dont you go back on the pill for 3 months, and then make your final decision? You'll know by then wether you really want to stop or not while avoiding getting pregnant if you decide its not what you want just yet.

Its a tough decision, but follow your instincts and you'll make the right one in the end

 

[xJodieLoux]

Wow that is a big decision. Do whatever feel's right for you, and good luck with whatever you choose. (You probably end up getting pregnant on the pill or something, sod's law)

 

[kimmumof2]

hi hun,
i think you are making a good decision. also you may not need a big break could just be a couple of months. me and my oh were trying to conceive for 7/8 months and then decided stop because of relationship reasons and i am in my second yr at uni. i went on the pill for 3 months but we both found out that it is all we wanted and i got pregnant as soon as periods were bk to normal. sometimes removing uirself from a situation can give you more of a perspective. on it. i hope whatever you decide is right for you and that you are happy hun. good luck xxxx

 

[smurf]

Personally I think you're doing the right thing - Finish uni get your exams and then think about marriage and babies - at the end of the day your young and you have a good 20 years to have a baby(take it from me I'm 39 pg with my first) .

Also if your bf has anger management issues its great that he's doing something about it but would a baby set him back.

Please don't be offended by what I've said its just my opinion basically you are the only one who can make the final decision and I wish you the best of luck.

 

[chellieboo]

Hey honey

I'm glad to hear your OH is seeking help with his anger.

Taking a break from TTC and focusing on other aspects of the future may do you both good and take the strain off a bit.

Hope you both are able to sort out what you want to do. Goodluck xxxx

 

[mum2be?]

well spoke to oh and we said i can look into getting married abroad.

However phoned his parents & asked them if they could afford it and his dad just said blaintly NO, not even i might but NO

I could cry, i can not see me get anywhere , i try to get somewhere and fall on my ass, why cant things go my way

 

[Bee]

I think finishing uni would be the best idea

Get a fantastic job and fund the wedding yourself

Thats what I want to do - I'm just waiting for the proposal first

Good luck with what u choose to do

 

[LauraM]

if you finish uni you can get a great job, and then save up for the wedding together! I hope you make the right decision for both of you hun x