leibiloo87
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So had midwife this afternoon and it was one iv never seen before I was asking about what you need for a home birth and she was going through a few things n asked what I was doing with my 2 little girls so I said they would be i the house but my mum wil be on hand if they need anything and she said to me that she knows a young girl who had to go to councelling after seeing her mother give birth at home as she was traumatised for a long time!!!!!!! I feel awful now I thought they would be ok but this has really put me off! also she said where are you putting your birthing pool so I said in our bedroom as its huge and she informed me that you have to get a surveyer around to check the floor will hold that can cost £500 and most peoples floors wont hold the wieght! so it looks like im now going to hospital which I didnt really want but the thought of my kids been traumatised by a homebirth is just making me feel sick. Another think out of the 2 hospitals I can choose from the one I would prefere dont have birthing pools so I have to go to my 2nd choice hospital for it, my head is allover the place now I dont no what to think and do, there just isnt enough information for people at all or much help with descision making in my opinion!!!!! x