messed up my cycle

[honeybear]

Hi girls
after OH threw a wobble last month about stopping trying.
then he changed his mind AFTER i started taking norgeston pill
a week in i stopped
i already had AF end of march
but then came on another heavy 3-4 day bleed beginning of april

anyway i think i ovulated around 13-14 days after that lots of watery cm stretchy the driiveee haha!

anyway as we are NTNP so to speak i couldnt find my OV sticks and then we didnt dtd much well i dont think anything near what we should have we dtd like 2 days in a row 2 /3 days BEFORE ovulation.

it actually seems like FOREVER since we where trying
we came so far for our fertility referral and then had to cancel it due to moving
but we agreed we wouldnt go down that route as we only in early twenties
i got my OH again to agree to a sperm check this week as he really wants one doing now to find out if anythings wrong on his part.

Its actually mad that in 2 months i will have been off depo 2 years and we have been TTC for 20 months!!!!!!

i can see why in some ways we stopped trying because 20 months is such a long time and i almost definitely know im out this cycle from that retched pill.

i dont know if im going to come on at the start of this month or at the end!?

hopefully when his swimmers are checked we might have some answers.
i feel like im going abit bonkers with it all i just wanna be a mum.
xxx

 

[lisey]

Hey hun,

Its so annoying how these pills can mess up our cycles, even when taking them for a short time. Hopefully they will get back to normal soon.

Good luck with OH sample, have you got him booked in yet?
I know you don't want to go down the fertility route but have you had day 21 bloods? It might be worth having it done along with your OH SA as they are the basic tests and its worth knowing if you are ovulating or not. The GP can arrange this, no need for any invasive tests xx

 

[honeybear]

hi lisey thanks for reply its heading that way at the moment if the will get his finger out his tush and do it
sick of nagging on about it xxx

 

[lisey]

Its not something they are usually happy about doing, I think they find it embarrassing and also the worry of there being an issue. My OH luckily didn't kick up a fuss about it but I think that's cos he knew I would go mad if he refused. I am a bit of a demon sometimes xx