Men Grrr!!

[mummyagain]

I'm sorry but i have to have a short rant,i am sat at home by myself yet again as my husband has gone out,just for a quick half!!!I work 3 days a week i am looking after 3 children 2 of which are young and the only time i get away from the kids is when i go to work.
Don't get me wrong my husband works hard and is brilliant with the kids when he's here but lately he seems to be being really selfish and doesnt understand that i dont get 5 mins to myself ever!Maybe its just my hormones but i feel so stressed now and i have tried talking to him but he just acts if everything ok n just assumes im gonna be ok with it.
I have had enough n feel like walking out for a day or so when he gets back but i know thats not the answer,i just wanna do something to make him realise what he's doing is making me upset.
sorry bout the moan i just have no one else to talk to at the mo.
xx

 

[MrsBrightside]

awww darling im sorry your feeling so down but you have every right to!! sending you huge hugs! If I was you I would arrange a day for yourself and leave him home alone like he keeps doing to you. He will soon know how your feeling. You need some time to yourself as well darling! might make him realise how your feeling everytime he does it to you.!!

 

[Cixes]

Maybe you could tell him that you really need some time out, say that on a certain day you are going out go have your hair and nails done or go do some relaxed christmas shopping, whatever you want to do, then enjoy yourself!
you deserve a bit of time out too!

I feel the same sometimes, my hubby went out yesterday afternoon for a few drinks with his mate and tonight he has hit the town! I couldn't get a baby sitter or i would of gone out for a few non alcholic drinks with my mates too! But i told him that i am taking my mum out for lunch during the week because we never get time for a treat together!

 

[mummyagain]

its my birthday so ive taken ur advice n booked in for a manicure n hopefully get my hair done n im gonna make him pay for it lol xx