Yea i think they normally go through the same scare, my 2nd took ages to heal, but i think thats got alot to do with how muh u don and dont do after your section. If u think about 1st time round u had a new baby to look after, very easy to pick up etc, but this time u have a toddler who wants cuddle of mammy, wants mammy to put them to bed etc, im sure if u rest like u should do they heal fine